ok roll up weirdies who NEVER leave their kdis wiht anyone

[TheDaVinciCod]

where are you all?
let me peer at you and prod you

My friend's 6.5 year old cries every day going to school, won't be left at birthday parties, can't do extra curricular activities without her mum .... for this reason. Child is lovely but a shocker in this way.
As a result my friend has been a lot more easy going with her DS and at 3 he is much more laid back.

I'm a blimp parent I think

I don't move much

I will happily leave my kids in good hands of family and friends

to go out on the piss, shopping etc etc

I do have a life apart from the kids

freak

od dear god i am not one of those. dd1 disappears at friends houses, our house too for ages and i do what i like. same at toddlers etc. she escaped into the playgroup last week and i left her there for a bit and she thought it was great.

benign neglect more my parenting style.

Oh, I think my parents got theirs from the phone book. Or the zoo.

I've never left my kids in the care of my parents, btw - well, my dad, now, while DS2 is having a nap. And DS1 was talking before I'd leave the ILs in charge of him.

Well ds's school was closed yesterday (they had a fire on Tues) and I had to work so sent ds to my boss's house and hios wife looked sfter him. He had never met er before.

Do I get a medal?

but your ILS didnt do a bad job on dhd surely?

Yes, I would leave them to go out on hte piss w/my man.

Have done, in fact.

Not just the once, either.

He is only 7 months, and BFing, so, I cant really leave him much anyway... you see...

oh and my dd1 requsted to go out with grandad 2 months ago, they had a great time together st the park and now she goes out with him everytime he's here.

who are you calling a freak fishy face

I left ds1 and dd with my parents 2 weeks after ds2 was born to go to a party. Got home to find dd covered in blood....

QP

If he's 7 months, you can leave him for a few hours...

a hair cuts worth

my brother thought iwas ott for not letting mum babysit until he had his own child. he saw what she was like while he was still in the room and cancelled his planned night out. first one since his boy was born 9 months before.

Cod

Why?

My ds is 6 years with SN's, and I've never even had one evening out with my partner{his dad} for the past 6 years without ds. Before I got pregnant, my life was spent around pubs, restaurants, gigs etc but unless I go out with my mates it's just not happening anymore.

Cod, my ILs? Or someone else's?

I never really had much chance to let my mum babysit ... oh, I lie, I left her and my dad with a sleeping DS1 when he was about 18 months, so I could go out on the piss with my mates back home.

But I could never have left her in charge of an awake baby or child - she was blind, really, but convinced she could still see. This resulted in many "hilarious" consequences.

I never leave my kids with anyone. What of it?

you are a wierdie

shcool is going to be a shock

No, it isn't. DS1 goes to preschool 5 mornings a week (I assumed when you say leave them with anyone, you mean a babysitter/relative). He settled on the first day without a murmur, surrounded by other kids screaming in terror and clinging to their mothers' legs. I don't believe school will bother either of them one jot, they are extremely confident and happy kids.

You're a nob sometimes cod, do you know that?

If all works out - mine will be staying over night with my friend - so she will have two 5 year olds, one 4 year old and two 2 year olds!! Ha ha, she's nuts!!!