How do you organise your time & how much help / childcare do you have?
Did you have extra help with newborns?
Do you budget for it or just regard it as part of life's daily expenses?
DH has always worked long hours but this has definitely increased in the last year. I am due to have no 2 at the end of August and am beginning to panic ... as I am faced with the prospect of minimal help / presence from him, as even when he is at home, he has loads of work to do / conference calls etc.