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Sept Mums ......part one

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wiltshire · 13/12/2003 01:26

I thought I would start a new one

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emmatmg · 01/02/2004 07:53

James had an off day with his food yesterday and wasn't keen on any of it so I think he's been secretly reading my posts to make me look a liar
This happened with DS2 and he just refused any of my food so I just went back to plain rice for a while and it kick started his taste buds again. Hopefully this will happen with James, couldn't stand another fussy eater like DS1 was as a baby.

Much to DS1 amusment James rolls over every time I put him under his gym now. He only got it for Xmas, it cost £55 and he now can't see the bloody dangley bits beacuse he can only lift his head up off the floor for a very short while before it looks like he's going to explode! Quite possibly a huge waste of money as it said it's for 0-10 months.....oh well.

Bekki · 01/02/2004 08:34

Same here Emma. We bought our playgym for £35. Ds1 loved his playgym and we couldn't have coped without it so I assumed all babies needed playgyms. But ds2 isn't at all interested.
I think he has an obvious personality now. He is quiet, laid back, content and a bit of a people person he is very chatty as well. What are your babies personalities?

emmatmg · 01/02/2004 08:41

GIVE ME ALL YOUR ATTENTION.........NOW!

that's James's personality, if he's not being carried around or 'chatted' too he screams so he gets picked up or 'chatted' too. Demanding and a little monster springs to mind. He is lovely though

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Ailsa · 01/02/2004 22:31

Jenny is content, chatty and giggly. I took Jenny to see a friend of mine tonight, friend's mum and dad were there, mum started talking to Jenny who just collapsed in fits of laughter. I can hear her now chatting (shouting) away in the other room to her dad.

Kittypickle · 10/02/2004 16:08

Hope all Sept babes and Mums are recovered from recent illnesses and that work is going well Ailsa.

Joseph has decided that my cooking isn't that bad after all and is getting quite into it. I feel very virtuous having spent all day Sunday chopping, cooking & pureeing and am now seriously considering knocking down the wall between the kitchen and another room seeing as it looks like I will be stuck in the kitchen for the forseeable future ......

suzywong · 10/02/2004 16:16

Hello everyone
i'm about to try Stevie on avocado, not sure how he'll take it but it's worth a try
BTW is anyone else's hair falling out in clumps?

emmatmg · 10/02/2004 16:34

my god suzy.....clumps isn't the word....i'll be bald within weeks if it carries on at this rate.

pie · 10/02/2004 17:41

October mum here, but yes my hair is falling out big time.

Have you guys had your thyroid levels checked, very common post partum and can cause your hair to fall out (well more than usual).

emmatmg · 10/02/2004 20:28

I didn't know that Pie so might check it out but I suspect mine is just because it'sthe first time I've had long hair at this stage of motherhood so I'm noticing(sp?) it more.
After DS2 my hair was very short so hardly noticed it then.

Thanks anyway.

Bekki · 10/02/2004 20:54

With ds1 my hair started falling out when he was 3 months and din't stop until he was 10 months. This time around it started at 3 months and is stopping thankfully. The hoover isn't out 3 times a day now.
Alexander is ready for food! What shall I start him on, suggestions please. He didn't like pear, and I don't like the idea of baby rice.

suzywong · 10/02/2004 20:59

so it's not just me
what does an adverse thyroid level do to you?
Bekki what about carrot and apple and a little of his usual milk?

Ailsa · 10/02/2004 21:39

My thyroid is overactive which makes your hair fall out anyway but it's falling out even more so at the moment. An overactive thyroid makes you sweat more, heart beat faster, higher blood pressure, less sleep - at one point before I was diagnosed I was surviving on 4 hours sleep per night and not feeling particularly tired, this lasted for about 6 months.

Did anyone see Holby City a couple of weeks ago, the woman that had her baby in that episode had an overactive thyroid although hers was undiagnosed. The attack she had after the birth scared the living daylights out of me because that could've been me had we not had an emergency cs. When I first discovered that I was pregnant and went to see the consultant, he also scared the living daylights out of me because one of the complications could have been a still birth, with I think is the reason I was more emotional once Jenny had arrived safely, it could have been so much worse.

Apologies if I've scared anyone, but it is worth getting your thyroid levels checked. I've got an appointment next week at which they'll probably up my dosage, in which case I'd better drop out of the mumsnet mammas, when the medication really kicks in, it is virtually impossible not to put on any weight. When I first started treatment, it was summer and I was eating nothing but salad and still putting loads of weight on! Consultant said I had to put up with it.

pie · 10/02/2004 21:41

Thats odd Ailsa as I have an underactive (hypo) thyroid with all the symtoms you have, usually is very hard to gain weight with an over active one. Maybe its the hormone suppresants?

Ailsa · 10/02/2004 22:56

Yep very hard to gain weight with over active thyroid, but when the medication really kicks in it's suprisingly easy, usually takes a couple of months.

pie · 10/02/2004 22:59

That sucks

The thing I've found about thyroid problems is the weight you do gain is near impossible to shift.

suzywong · 10/02/2004 23:01

My mum got an overactive one after she had me, does it run in families?

pie · 10/02/2004 23:03

Some thyroid disorders do, some don't. Worth getting checked out though.

suzywong · 10/02/2004 23:09

You're scaring me now
do you really think I should just because my hair is malting?

Ailsa · 11/02/2004 13:18

If that's the only thing that's happening then it's probably ok, some people also get a goitre whether their thyroid is under or over active.

pie · 11/02/2004 13:19

Sorry I didn't mean to scare you! Just thought it might be worth checking out.

Beccarollover · 17/02/2004 08:01

Hi everyone

Update time??

Harvey is doing great - really coming on now. He is making lots more noises and shreiks and often lies in his cot going da-da-da-da-da-da for a while in the morning, I convince DP that this means he is calling for him so he must go to him lol

He is eating like a champ - still loving all of his fruit and veggies.

Sleeps beautifully and consistently 7pm -7/30am and is generally just gorgeous.

He is just over 18lbs now and well into 6-9/6-12 clothes.

Only 3 or so weeks til I go back to work 3 days a week - DREADING IT

Ailsa · 18/02/2004 00:22

Hope work goes ok for you Becca - I hated going back and still hate it now. I trying desperately to get something part time or at the very least term time only. Unfortunately I can't do my job term time as the main purpose of it is during the summer holidays!

Jenny's poorly at the moment, she was sick twice at nursery yesterday but they were happy to have her back today. But just after lunch she was sick again and had the runs (badly) so I had to collect her and take her to Nans for the afternoon.

In general though she loves her food, the only thing she doesn't like so far is heinz parsnip and cheesy bake. Don't have a clue what she weighs at the moment. She too is 'talking' alot, but hers is mum mum mum mum mum, and sometimes it sounds like she's saying 'hiya', (I know she's not really) and she loves singing, she laughs her little socks of when her big sister sings and dances for her.

Can't believe she's 5½ months already.

emmatmg · 18/02/2004 07:10

Well my update could be for a newborn on the sleep front. James is STILL waking during the night and draining a bottle. And pretty much every day he's awake at 5:30am at the lastest wanting to get up(this morning it was 4:53am!!!!!!!!)

Milk is going well now but food is a nightmare. I cook for him myself and he spits it all out but if I try a jar he'll eat it.......but I refuse to pay 60p (or whatever) for them when I can make my own. I've frozen some proper food for him (minted lamb and veg) in the hope that he'll like that instead of just the plain veg.

His weight is also a nightmare, becoming obsessed with it again actually, as in 3 week he's only put on 3oz taking him to 14lb8oz. 2 of those weeks he didn't put on any at all. DH and I aren't big my any means (did I tell you that my size 12 jeans go on with room to spare) so I suppose he isn't going to be a chunk but as hard as I try not to I still worry about it.

He is on the go constantly and has been rolling over since 17 weeks (bang on the day) and can sit unaided for a very short while although I think that's just a accident on his part most of the time. He's a screamer when it comes to making noise, not because he's unhappy just to make the loudest noise possible and he's very pleased with himself when doing it.

Is everyone still sterilizing everything? James shoves everything in his mouth so it's becoming a pointless task in our house and I'm very tempted to stop doing it.......would I be scorned by my fellow mumsnetters for being such a bad mum?

Bekki · 18/02/2004 09:17

I'm amazed by all of your babies. Eating lamb, rolling, sitting!
Little Alex doesn't like food at all yet and I'm fed up of trying so I'm definatley going to attempt child led weaning.
I have no idea what Alex weighs. Hes long and slim and in 6-9 month clothing.
He can roll onto his side (to get to my boob!) But nothing else yet. Hmm he is getting stronger though and I think he'll be sitting by 7 and a half months.
In comparison ds1 was on solids at 12 weeks, sitting at 5 months and walking at 8 months!
He is such a good baby. Hes calm, content, quiet and passive.
Sleep wise heusually sleeps from 10/11-7/8. With little naps in the day.
I love it when he sings to us. He loves to be part of conversations and ever since he was a newborn he has made sounds that could be mistaken for 'mum' and 'hiya'. When he was born the midwives said that they had never known a newborn to talk rather than scream. So although he might be a little behind with physical milestones verbally I think he might be quite advanced.
Ds1 (bless him) is having alot of problems behaviourally and is set to see an educational psychologist soon. He tries so hard to be good but its like a switch goes and hes out of control. I hope the EP can help us.
I've been so sick (literally) over the last two days i'm very dizzy and I can't stop vomiting. I'm so hungry but I can't keep anything down. Its a nightmare looking after kids when you're ill.
Becca- I hope everything goes well for you in 3 weeks. I'm going to miss you being online.
Emma- We don't sterilize anything. Theres no point when ds1 shoves his muddy fingers in Alex's mouth to chew on.
Ailsa- I know what you mean I just can't get my head around the fact that Alex will soon be 6 months old, thats half a year! I hope Jenny gets better soon.

How many naps for how long do your babes get in the day?

Beccarollover · 18/02/2004 09:24

Harvey goes for his first nap at around 9am (from waking up at 7am) and sleeps for 1 - 1.5 hours) - he then has one at about 12 - 1 and sleeps for 1 - 1.5 hours again - sometimes he makes it through without an afternoon nap but if he does this he has to go to bed by 6.30. He normally has a short nap in the afternoon for about 20 minutes.

This is all on a typical day, there are times he will catnap on and off if we are out a long time in the car or buggy.