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SS involved for "domestic violence" (me and dp play fighing i landed on me head nothing nasty)

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MySonIsMyWorld · 21/05/2012 20:10

SS got involved after i went to hospital after me and dp were playfighing and i landed on my head went to a&e to get checked out anyway and low and behold my dp got arrested and ss are now involved - please note my ds was in bed when we were messing around. So now we are being looked into! HOW ANNOYING! i feel so pissed off because i dont want fucking ss near my family!! I feel really shit right now that they even think dv is in my family, i wouldnt stand for it from my dp or anyman ....when do they go away? does the record stay forever?!

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colditz · 21/05/2012 20:15

DOn't panic, ring the SS yourself and tell them exactly what happened, they will drop it, promise.

The hospital will have filed a report saying an injury happened whilst a child was in the house. It's up to you to fill in the details./

AnyFucker · 21/05/2012 20:20

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ConstantCraving · 21/05/2012 20:28

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Cassettetapeandpencil · 21/05/2012 20:33

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TrinityIsAFuckingRhino · 21/05/2012 20:34

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TrinityIsAFuckingRhino · 21/05/2012 20:35

'the hospital would have filed a report.......'

nonsense

TheWomanFormerlyKnownAsSGM · 21/05/2012 20:35

Hospitals have very specific protocols to follow when they suspect DV. That doesn't involve mandatory arrest. If your DH has been arrested by the police, I suspect it was more than 'horse play.

Pan · 21/05/2012 20:37

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BigHairyFlowers · 21/05/2012 20:39

Is it some kind of reverse thing?

TheFallenMadonna · 21/05/2012 20:39

My DH has had numerous accidents whilst our DC were in the house necessitating a trip to A&E. We haven't had any police or SS involvement. I guess just tell them what happened. And leave playfighting to the children.

Catsmamma · 21/05/2012 20:40

I am waiting with bated breath for SS and the RSPCA to come after the cat scratched dh in the eye the other week

all three children were in the house and five other pets.

OliviaLMumsnet · 21/05/2012 20:43
ConstantCraving · 21/05/2012 20:44

Why was AnyFucker's message deleted?

Pan · 21/05/2012 20:46

and..mine? I only doubted something. No personal attack. Bit bemused.

ShatnersBassoon · 21/05/2012 20:46

Why didn't you tell the police that a mistake had been made? Seems an unusual series of events.

LowFlyingBirds · 21/05/2012 20:47

Eh? Why the deletions?
How else are people supposed to say that it doesnt addup?
No one was making troll accusations, just saying that this is a highly unlikely chain of events.

Cassettetapeandpencil · 21/05/2012 20:48

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SeventhEverything · 21/05/2012 20:52

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OliviaLMumsnet · 21/05/2012 20:54

You can read all the whys and wherefores behind our rules herebut here's the nutshell version:
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TrinityIsAFuckingRhino · 21/05/2012 20:55

I wasn't trollhunting
I was just telling the op i didn't think she was telling us the truth

TrinityIsAFuckingRhino · 21/05/2012 20:56

ok so we should have ignored....ok miss, sorry

Catsmamma · 21/05/2012 20:56

no trollhunting, but sarcasm is allowed? ;)

OliviaLMumsnet · 21/05/2012 20:57

No head hanging necessary - just click report in these instances.
Then no harm done
Thanks
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Pan · 21/05/2012 20:57

if that's the case Seventh ( and you are prob right! then why only get ride of me, AF and Trinity? SGM, Cassette, Constance should be in the sin bin.

how about 'there would appear to be some inconsistencies in your account. Would you care to elaborate further?'

LowFlyingBirds · 21/05/2012 20:58

But what if people arent doubting that the overall situation is real?
Therefore no trollhunting, just trying to cut through possible embellishments to get to the actual problem?
Which is how i read the responses...