Macdog, Jenn, Worley, Voods...we know who we are

[Macdog]

This better?

Voods forgot I use different email address for Windows live.
I'll tweet it to ya!

Big waves to Jennster and Worley too

Decided today to keep dd in the Nursery she is currently at, and not send her to Primary pre-school.

Hope dh understands.....

yay! he's fine with it

why would your dh not understand?

my dd is going through a naughty phase.
grit teeth!!
shouts NO! at everything. I mean Everything.

tar Jenn, off to view those slow cook things.

that overnight porridge one sounds good but what the hell are 'pinhead' oats? different to ordinary oats?

sorry i've not been on, i have kind of had a very crappy week, i found out that dp has been carrying on with someone else, she rang me and left me messages telling me what had gone on, because she wanted dp to leave me and he wouldnt so she rang me and left me messages on our home phone. it turns out it started 2 years ago and its a girl he worked with at mencap (although he doesnt work for them anymore) so for the past 2 years on a tues night when he had said he is at work on a sleep duty at work he has been staying at her house. i dont know what to do, i feel sick all the time. he says he had been trying to stop it (it started when he was getting drunk a lot after his mum died and she was there at the pub and it happened and she wont let it go) so she had been going through his phone (i dont even do that) and found messages he sent to me and found out that also on other nights he told her he was working when he wasnt he was at home with us and she didnt like it and had been threatening him and rang me, she also got hold of my mobile and been ringing my mobile too. but i refused to speak to her (why should i!!)(now have to get new mobile number) and dp went absolutley mental at her telling her not to come near me or the house and children and not to threaten us etc. i knew years ago she liked him and he didnt believe me, she was just someone who he worked with and i knew i was right all along, she waited for her opportunity and took it when he wasnt at his best. all i said was i told you she was after you about 5 years ago. he is still here (as he has no where else to go and if i kick him out the only other place he has to stay would be hers and im not pushing him there even if i dont want him here)
i have been going round my best mates a lot, we went out to the pubs last night (hangover now) and last fri we went out again, which dp is hating as he thinks im going out to get my own back on him which im not, i havnt been able to write al this before which is why i havnt been on really all week. were talking about me buying him out of the mortgage and he buying some where else, which he doesnt want to do, but how can you trust someone again after that?
its all just at mess at the moment. im at work tomorrow 9-7 so wont be back on net till monday. this is one long ramble!!

i've told him to go to bereavment counselling as thats a lot of his trouble and needs help, he running himself into the ground and i cant keep coping with his major mood swings. i know its hard for him not having either parents and his brother in the states and his other brother has gone and the social still wont tell us where they have placed him. in a way i feel sorry for him, he must have been an easy target for her, and im not removing any of the blame from him as i know it takes to, he says he got stuck in a rut and couldnt get out, he was cared of losing all of us and shes a freaking pysco. (her dh left her about 3 years ago, she found out he was having an affair and had a child with another women!!) we all helped her out then and this is how she choose to repay me.

So sorry to hear this Worley, wish I could say or do something to help you

How are the boys, do they know what's going on?

Oh shit Worley. at your dp and for you and the boys. If there is anything you need or any legal advice my dh might be able to help you. (For free of course)

oh worley I send you love XXXX

she sounds like a right piece.

men. suck.

thankyou, im ok, just in a dream world at the mo, ds1 doesnt know whats going on, to be honest he is used to either one of us normally being at work (suppossedly!) while the other is at home, so i went out fri night didnt get home till sat afternoon, then worked all day yesterday.
dont know what to do with him though, i went to the GUM clinic at work and had tests done to make sure he hasnt given me anything from her (he says he was carefull but can i trust him now??)and get the results back in 10 days. that was embarrassing i can tell you.
i havnt told anyone at work or my parents, just my best mate and you guys.

im going to boxersize (?) on weds eve and meeting my other mate on thurs eve while our boys are at cubs, she has also just split from her dp a few days before this happened but didnt tell me as she wanted to compose herself first! if we start howling together in the pub people will wonder what on earth is wrong with us!!

im not sure how all this mortgage stuff works though, if i end up buying him out of the mortgage, i think i can afford it by myself and i start getting help with ds2's nursery in sept so thats going to be a bit cheaper.

Wish I could give you a proper hug Worley. How about a slice of virtual lemon drizzle cake.

would loooove some lemon drizzle cake, thankyou
off to buy milkyway magic stars for ds2 which he has gone on and on and on and on all afternoon. good job the shop is only round the corner.

lol magic stars.

with dd it's 'chocky bread' ie chocolate brioche. she can mither for that for hours

someone nearly reversed into my car in tesco carpark! silly cow. I swerved like a mad woman, good job noone was in my way!

had a second viewing on saturday..not heard anything fingers eyes and toes crossed

xxxxxxxx to you all

have any of you got birkenstocks or fitflops? they are both about £40 so am going to save but dont know which to go for..

like the birkies with three straps in red.

gordon brown is holding on for grim life isnt he? we'll have him as PM till the bitter end.

{sad] about the bnp guy who got in in Burnley
nutters.

hope it all works out for you Worley, xxx

Makes you feel a little ashamed to be from the North West doesn't it Voodoo. Not in MY name. Hope you all voted? 34% of the electorate actually went to vote!

Voodoo I have Birkenstocks. Had some Gizeh toe post sandals for a couple of years, and have just bought that look like cozumel but thought they had a different name Here

Because they are called Mayari. For some reason they aren't in the catalogue, but are for sale on that site.

I don't know...first Birkenstocks..than it'll be Boden...then who knows!!!

Newsbiscuit take on BNP

Ha if only NG were exiled. I get the impression on here that Boden in poorly made. I can buy poorly made in Sainsbury's, Asda and Tesco for a fraction of the cost. I don't own any Boden. DD has a dress she was given. It probably cost a fortune, but is such a simple pattern, my mum traced around it and made a newspaper pattern to make loads of them.

weather gorgeous up here!

took dd to soft play yesterday with one of her wee pals from nursery.

They conquered a 10ft climbing wall!!

will put pic on profile

Not great weather here. Cloudy with sunny intervals. Got washing on the line though. I'm lazy today. Intended to go out but got a load of stuff done while dd2 asleep. Now it's too late to go out before lunch. Think I'm going to eat mine and leave dh's out for him, otherwise I'll get sucked in to crap TV.