ok sunflower I agreed until the 'even with purees/baby rice you let them dunk their fingers.. you put food on the tray and let them help themselves.'
sorry to much mess to clean for me. no no no they can do that mess when they've got their own home, this is my house and I only I can make a mess!!!!!
tbh dd1 was not interested in helping herself so lucky, dd2 aims at dunking fingers everytime and often she manages like tiramolla.
but again no no imagine the mash all ove the floor. percarita'!!