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I don't know what to make of this text

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FeelSick · 14/10/2004 14:50

My dp sent me a text. It was 2 messages long, and a lot of the time when I get sent a message that is 2 texts long, it sometimes gets muddled with another text. This happened with this text. I got the full message but in two seperate texts and the first one was mixed with another one. It wasn't mixed with one I had seen before.

It ended saying "... much, wen she see's mine she mite not care about him anymore!" I've asked dp what that text meant and who was it for, but he hasn't replied. I've jump to a conclusion of what it could mean, but I really hope it isn't. What do you think?

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KangaMummy · 15/10/2004 18:48

so you received 2 texts

did one of them end and then get the suspicious one? Was the 1st one a long text ie did it fill up SMS1 and so then would go to SMS2.?

I can't remember how many characters or spaces that is, did he say love ........ ? At the end of SMS1? Or were you expecting another text to finish what he was saying? IYSWIM

And he sent the 2nd text when you were out and he was alone?

If you asked him straight out with his phone in front of you who did you send this to or what is this about what will he say or his reaction be like?

Could someone else have been with him when you were out and they send the text? One of his mates for example?

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FeelSick · 15/10/2004 18:52

well i received 3. 2 of them where 1 message. but the first half of the message (1 text) got muddled up with another text (message 3) that wasn't meant for me. it then came up saying that this text was sent when I was out. He was home alone as far as I know, as our DD was at DM's house. TBH, I don't know how he'd react. He didn't really answer me when I asked if he knew what it was, and what it was saying. He just said that he sent me the 2 messages that I got.

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FeelSick · 15/10/2004 18:53

Sorry, did that make sense or have I made it more confusing?

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Thomcat · 15/10/2004 18:59

Feelsick - sorry to hear you are still all unsure and unsettled about this, you poor thing.
The way I see it, you either believe in him and accept that some strange half a message from someone to someone somehow got muddled into your text, and put this whole thing behind you and move on and have a nice weekend together OR you sit him down, tell him that this half a message has made you feel incredibly uncomfortable and if he has something he needs to tell you would he please do it now. You either trust him and move on babes or you don't trust him and a) if he hasn't done anything you hurt the relationship by being suspicious or he tells you something ou don't want to hear. Personally I think it's innocent and I'd leave it alone, and have a lovely weekend.
I really do hope that happens for you babes. We can talk more about it if you'd like to, love TC

ggglimpopo · 15/10/2004 19:00

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Thomcat · 15/10/2004 19:04

Yeah but as he has already been confronted about it and then it was left going back to it is saying right I don't believe or trust you and I think you are shagging someone.
If you really do think he might be up to something then tell him that but I really don't think you have proof, he sounded (it it was a message he actually even wrote) like he was just being silly and laddish, IF he wrote it.

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FeelSick · 15/10/2004 19:05

Thanks TC, I know you're right. But with past experiences with men, it tends to get to you, like coddy said. Maybe I am just getting myself over paranoid. I will see how the weekend goes, and if it is still bothering me by the end of it, then I will decide what to do then.

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Thomcat · 15/10/2004 19:15

Well I really do hope you'll be okay. I've looked at the trxt words a lot and although it doesn't make sense and is abit odd, it really doesn't sound like anything to feel sick over babes. It sounds like a boy to boy text, it's 'when' she sees mine, and she won't care about 'him', it sounds like silly boy banter about a woman with a boyfriend who might be quite nice looking and the boys are having a bit of fun. He might have been sent that anyway, and not typed it himself. I'm not saying you shoukld bury your head in the sand and ignore obvious signs but I don't think this is an obvious sign and I do think there should be an element of trust in relationships. Open a bottle of wine and put a shitty old couple of days behind you mate. xx

KangaMummy · 15/10/2004 19:20

so his phone sent the suspicious message

{whether it should have been sent to you I don't think is as important IMHO,}

BUT it came from his phone so he was planning on sending it to someone.

IMHO I think that it sounds like boasting one that would be sent to a mate but who is it about is the question? Have any of his mates started a relationship with a married woman and so that could be what it means?

Can you find out who is in his phone book in mobile?

Could it have been forwarded to his phone and then sent on? I can do this on my erricsson T68. What kind does he have?

I really hope you can get this solved for your own piece of mind.

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FeelSick · 15/10/2004 19:38

Thanks all. Thank you for your advice, thoughts and support.

Kanga, most of his friends are women, which has never bothered me before. He can forward texts from his phone. I did just think (sparked on from TC's comment) that one of his best mates is the type of guy who sleeps around, and always seems to boast about the night of 11 times. I will go on trust and pass this off as boyish behaviour, but just hope my worries don't come back up to the surface. I will try to put this behind me, and hopefully sleep easier tonight

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KangaMummy · 15/10/2004 19:53

OK I think it is to do with this mate of his boasting about his conquests sending hima text and then by accident it being forwarded on with yours.

I hope you feel better and that I haven't made you feel worse.

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FeelSick · 15/10/2004 20:08

Don't worry kanga, I appreciate your comments Thanks.

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Thomcat · 15/10/2004 20:28

I can keep a message, that has been sent to me, on my phone and add to it, it's the 1st option that comes up in my text options. I have to go down and choose an empty screen. There is every chance he RECEIVED this text from someone else and it was on his screen when he was texting you.
Even if the words were his they still don't spell out secret affair as far as I'm concerned. If you have never had reason to not believe him this is no reason to start not trusting him.

codswallop · 16/10/2004 14:00

news?

collision · 16/10/2004 15:31

bump

Davros · 16/10/2004 18:09

Do grown men send each other these king of texts? Sound more like teenage girls if you ask me.

Davros · 16/10/2004 18:09

ooops, kinD of texts

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