yes franca I thought especially of you when read that book. I am 100% sure you'll love it, it is soo soo tiny (unfortunately) that can be read in one day.
another two good ones that have been recommended to me while away are: 'mille anni che sto qui' di mariolina venezia e 'danubio' non so l'autore ma e un triestino and he was about to win the nobel or something (heard it on the radio). i haven't read them and like an idiot did not buy them either so now have to wait till i go to pg in november (too stingy to order them through IBS).
I can understand your sadness franca but you'll be fine after the first few weeks.
I personally would find it very difficult to move back. not for any practical reason, just I cannot see DD raised as a 100% italian. it's difficult to explain and maybe stupid as I am 100% italian but when I was watching italian teenagers about last week I was happy DD will be different. I am sure I'll regret this very much when she'll be out drinking at 16 and when she'll say 'what do you know mamma you're not english!'.
I ma still at work so I am going to head off home.