see I did not have any preconceptions as I have not a clue of life with kids in PG. none of my friend had kids before me (they were all shocked I was the first as I never looked the type! even to myself.) so really I am just starting afresh and have got very little to compare with italy (except for what to feed your children and wht time they go to bed and when they have a bath ).
I liked childminder when she was 11m because I liked thew homey atmosphere and felt less guilty thinking that DD could think she was at some relative's house!
Now she's older though, l'm sure she'll be happy anywhere. I'm going to see childmindr again to ask more question. this time I am not going to be a pushover!!!
DD's best friend is here and it is absolutely bliss for me. I did so much work... maybe twins is not such a bad idea..