How does one convince a lady?

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Yes I'm a male on Mumsnet(LOL)... So I choice this particular Forum/ site thingy due to the shear volume of female users and, I need advice.

Basically we(fiancée and me) currently live in London (Marlybone) in a 3 bedroom cramped flat with no children (yet) :P and, to be quite frank I hate it here, it's huge and small all at the same time. I feel like moving and, in particular I have my sights set on Birmingham as I recently went there to visit a friend and I felt 'at home'.
Henceforth I want a change but my fiancée doesn't.

My question is to all of you women how would you be persuaded to move to an unknown location?

Another question, What are the best areas to live in? On a side note I've read via Mummyloos' thread what places are good but I want it too be more specific and, what I mean by this is postcode specific considering the following;

1. Good community all ethnicity's are welcome.
2. Safe
3. Good facilities e.g tennis court, swimming pools and nature reserve parks(like Richmond) or any nice park for a good stroll.
4. Big garden for barbecues and parties
5. We have a budget of about 1-1.2mil I'm looking for around a 5 bed so when friends or family come they can stay for the weekend.
6. Family friendly.
7. Excellent Night life (prob one of the highest priority on the list)
8. relatively close to amenities like doctors and dentists.

Thats all I can think of right now( seems a little bit since I had a list of stuff. Weird.)

Another thing would be if I posted links if it's allowed could you guys give your opinions? Highly appreciate it.

I decided to post my own thread as I did not want to steal the other users

powershowerforanhour Okay, still not sure what it is with people and the instant hate? It's actually foreign exchange But thanks for contributing your' 2 cents!

I reported this a while ago power - we'll just have to wait and see...!

WellErrr You clearly have not or you'd have understood how much I value her job and her.

LOL. Why are people indulging this shit?

venusinscorpio Elaborate? So much people quick to deliver negativity, just leave. If I'm a troll I'l be banned I guess? easy.

You're quite right venus.

But there really are men like this out there, it's not unfeasible.

Interesting that you assumed I was saying you were trolling. I didn't, did I?

Fair point, WellErr.

I didn't direct it to you, as I ended the sentence. I just said it in the post with your' username in it. But you are also implying it but it's fine.

what do you both mean "men like this"? Wellerr I thought you were one for equality? so much for that. Irony

I did not get my panties in a twist, I am not American. I wear knickers.

Okay this has gone off topic and turned a bit weird. I'll leave this thread now. If you guys want to be kept posted I will... probably not going to be much other than a laugh and we'll see... Thanks to the help of most of you.

If you are real then I suggest you grow the fuck up before bringing a baby into the world.

Welcome to mumsnet!

You dont sound like you respect her at all, if I were her I'd be counting the days until you left for Brum to be honest.

Are you a tit OP? You sound like one.

". If I'm a troll I'l be banned I guess? easy."

Here's hoping.

Oh, real men change nappies, Omar. Get used to it. Unless your imaginary fiancée łeaves you first.

I know this thread will go pfft in a minute but it really made me fancy a balti