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I'm going to say goodby

184 replies

Blandmum · 27/11/2006 22:18

THis isn't a flounce

It isn't an exercise in getting people to post asking me not to go. Goodness knows you have all bee more than supportive of me in the past, and for that you will always have my greatful thanks.

Please continue to think of dh in your positive vibes, he needs all the help that he can get.

At the moment my world is full of pan, everything causes more, even christmas shopping for my two beautiful children left me wretched, as I don't know how many more I have with my darling, darling husband. Everywhere I look I see things that cause me more pain.

and like a fool I posted to openly, rested my grief on a virtual world. And in the end I caused myself more pain, as if I ever need any more.

I don't know what is going to happen tomorrow. In my heart of hearts I feel it will be bad, my darling has got so ill so fast.

Thank you for all of your help. I'll be asking MN to remove all my many posts and to ban me.

Think kindly thoughts of my good sweet man. Tonight my ds told me 'When I grow up I'm going to treat my children like daddy treats us'. I', going to spend whatever time I have left with this good, patient loving gentle man and my kids.

Hx

OP posts:
Nemoinapeartree · 27/11/2006 22:19

aww MB huge hugs to you and your family at this awful time.

arsehole · 27/11/2006 22:20

dont go mb

have been thinking of you and your dh
and my thoughts are genuine

hugs babe
doormat
desperateSCOUSE
xxxx

coppertop · 27/11/2006 22:21

You'll be greatly missed, mb. I wish you and your family all the very best. xxx

Carmenere · 27/11/2006 22:21

I understand why you want to go and I wish you and your family strenght and luck. You will be badly missed, please come back and let us know how you are doing occasionally. xxx

foundintranslationnothere · 27/11/2006 22:21

mb

wish I could say something, anything that would help even a little bit.

i will continue to think of and (hope you don't mind) pray for you all.

There is always love and support for you here.

x

lulumama · 27/11/2006 22:22

martian.....mumsnet will be a poorer place without your gentle wit , rapier like intelligence and sensitive , articulate postings........wishing the time you and your family have together to be as sweet, loving and long as is possible...

take care ......xx

expatinscotland · 27/11/2006 22:22

wish you'd stay, mb.

or give us an email.

KBear · 27/11/2006 22:22

mb - sorry to see you're leaving. My prayers are with you and your DH and family.

hester · 27/11/2006 22:22

I will be thinking of you and your family, MB.
xx

PinkTinsel · 27/11/2006 22:23

{{{{hugs}}}}

i'm so sorry that you and your family should have to go through this MB

controlfreaky2 · 27/11/2006 22:23

you should do whatever feels right for you... but there are clearly lots of people here who care about you and your family and want to do what they can to support you.

arsehole · 27/11/2006 22:23

mb my email is
[email protected]

if you ever fancy a chat

oxidisedteddy · 27/11/2006 22:23

I'd just like to say it's been a pleasure to know you, the kids you teach are so lucky to have someone likr you to inspire them. I hope with all my heart that things are not as bad as you fear, but whether you ever come here again or not, you know that we will all be thinking of you and wishing you well

snorkle · 27/11/2006 22:23

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Fattymumma · 27/11/2006 22:24

i know you asked us not to, but PLEASE Mb don't go.

im sure you have a world of support out there in Rl as you are such a kind caring person im sure you attract friends like buttefly's to a bloom but we will always be here for you to sound off when things are bad, to cry on i you need and to scream blue murder if you so desire.

we are all thinking of you and your Dh. i have no idea who you must be feeling right now but my heart aches for you. every single word of your recent threads shows your love for your DH and i cannot imagine the thoughts you must be having.

if you do go, please remember that there is a whole community praying and thinking of you both. please let us know how you get on

edam · 27/11/2006 22:25

MB, I am so very, very sorry that tonight's ruck has hit you so hard just when you need every ounce of support. I do hope you get good news tomorrow and will continue to think of you and your dh and family.

ghosty · 27/11/2006 22:25

MB - tears in my eyes from your post ...
You have had a terrible time and I wish I could take some of that pain away from you and your DH ....
Go and spend time and love with your wonderful family and know that the people that care about you on MN are here should you need us ...
{{{}}}
ghosty xx

FireFaerie · 27/11/2006 22:25

Have been lurking on your threads, feeling like it would be out of place of me to post as i dont know you, but i had to say i wish you all the best for the future, and i hope this isnt the last opportunity i get to 'talk' to you. Good Luck! My thoughts are with you and your family at what must be a very difficult time for you all.
All the best for the future. ~x~

misdee · 27/11/2006 22:25

mb, i really wish i could help. you have my email address, please keep in touch. i will think of you all and pray for you every day. i hope tomorrow goes as well as it possibly can for you and dh, and you get some idea of the situation and how you can face it together.

miracles do happen, i didnt think we'd be here this time last year.

love to you mb, please keep in touch, even just to rant and rave.

d

xx

Californifrau · 27/11/2006 22:25

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Message withdrawn at poster's request.

SaintGeorge · 27/11/2006 22:25

Oh please mb, don't let MN go completely or for that matter have your posts deleted. You have offered so much help and sound advice in the past and it would leave a gap in the archives if your stuff goes

I understand your need to step away now, but remember we will be here for you when (or if) ever you feel it is time to venture back.

Aero · 27/11/2006 22:25

Ditto Carmenere's post. I wish you well. I will continue to keep you and yours in my thoughts.

PollyLogos · 27/11/2006 22:26

Maybe you could say au revoir to us not goodbye?

I have been thinking of you and your family a lot over the past few days and will continue to do so.

WigWamBam · 27/11/2006 22:26

I wish you'd change your mind, but understand that it's not quite so simple as that. Mumsnet will be a poorer place without you.

I will continue to keep you in my thoughts.

pelvicfloorSNOWmore · 27/11/2006 22:26

Wish there was something we could do mb
Will be thinking of you
xxx

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