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I'm going to say goodby

184 replies

Blandmum · 27/11/2006 22:18

THis isn't a flounce

It isn't an exercise in getting people to post asking me not to go. Goodness knows you have all bee more than supportive of me in the past, and for that you will always have my greatful thanks.

Please continue to think of dh in your positive vibes, he needs all the help that he can get.

At the moment my world is full of pan, everything causes more, even christmas shopping for my two beautiful children left me wretched, as I don't know how many more I have with my darling, darling husband. Everywhere I look I see things that cause me more pain.

and like a fool I posted to openly, rested my grief on a virtual world. And in the end I caused myself more pain, as if I ever need any more.

I don't know what is going to happen tomorrow. In my heart of hearts I feel it will be bad, my darling has got so ill so fast.

Thank you for all of your help. I'll be asking MN to remove all my many posts and to ban me.

Think kindly thoughts of my good sweet man. Tonight my ds told me 'When I grow up I'm going to treat my children like daddy treats us'. I', going to spend whatever time I have left with this good, patient loving gentle man and my kids.

Hx

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MarsLady · 27/11/2006 22:27

I'll continue to pray. I wish you the most incredible time with your family. Much love and we'll still be here sweetheart.

Saturn74 · 27/11/2006 22:27

MB, your post is so eloquent, and demonstrates what a wonderful wife and mother you are.
I wish you wouldn't leave - but you need to do what is best for you at this time.
I hope you will come back, and I am sending positive thoughts to you and your family.

hunkermunker · 27/11/2006 22:27

You and your family very much in my thoughts and will continue to be, MB. Don't vanish for good though, please? You'll leave a lot of people wondering how you are otherwise (although rightly this is not to be your priority!).

Do you have a lot of RL support? Not that MN is de rigeur for support these days - just I'd hate you to cut off a source of the stuff just because of...oh, I won't sully the thread, sweetheart.

Thinking of you and sending you all the kindly thoughts I have - your love for your DH is clear and bright and overwhelming.

Much love x x x x x

JanH · 27/11/2006 22:28

I was afraid this was going to be you, mb...

You have to do what feels right for you, but please keep half an eye on MN and know that we are thinking about you and DH and hoping for the best for him and you and your children.

If you do go you know you will be missed enormously . (I hope you won't, obv. Pls keep in touch whatever happens )

XXX

magnolia1 · 27/11/2006 22:28

Thinking of you, your Dh and your wonderful children at this sad time xxxxxxxx I can't put into words anything that would make you feel any better but wanted to send huge {{{{{hugs}}}}} to you xxxxxxx

Mercy · 27/11/2006 22:29

I just don't know what to say MB (I obv. need to do a search, I have missed something).I'm so sorry

With much love to you all.

themulledSNOWMANneredjanitor · 27/11/2006 22:29

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suzywong · 27/11/2006 22:30

what they all said

and a manly punch on the arm xxxxxxxxxxx

JoolsToo · 27/11/2006 22:30

I'm so, so sad you're going but understand completely you must be with your dh every moment.

Take good care of him and your lovely children and most of all take care of yourself.

You'll be sorely missed and will be in my thoughts.

If mn has any sort of collective power to send your dh you know it's there.

Love to you all.

JTx

hulababy · 27/11/2006 22:31

MB.

You have to do what feels right for you and your family right now. I can't imagine the pain you are going for right now. I truely hope tomorrow brings some positive news. You, your DH and your children will be in my thoughts. Take care.

Mercy · 27/11/2006 22:31

Absolutely agree with your post St.George.

tamum · 27/11/2006 22:32

Please, please don't go. You are a real friend and I would miss you so much. If you do go, please don't feel, whatever you do, that you can't come back.

Gillian76 · 27/11/2006 22:32

All the best xxx

wrinklytum · 27/11/2006 22:33

Can understand why you feel like going.You will be missed.Sincerest good wishes to you and your family.Hugs,Wrinkly.

sallystrawberry · 27/11/2006 22:33

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VeniVidiVickiQV · 27/11/2006 22:33

Oh MB please dont go! Not for good. I understand you wanting to step back - absolutely. But please dont let this taint things for you. Keep in touch.

I wish you all the very best xxxxxxxxxxx

harpsichordcarrier · 27/11/2006 22:33

god mb I wish you wouldn't go.
sending love love love
HC xx

ISawTortoiseKissingSantaClaus · 27/11/2006 22:33

I don't 'know' you in any way MB but just wanted to echo everyones comment.
I don't think your posts should be deleted and MN will always be here if you need it at any time.
I hope things work out for your DH.

Gingerbear · 27/11/2006 22:34

You will be missed MB. You are in my thoughts, and will remain so. You know where we are if ever you need us again.
xxGB

Yorkiegirl · 27/11/2006 22:34

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sallystrawberry · 27/11/2006 22:35

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RTKangaMummy · 27/11/2006 22:35

Sending you and you DH and your family

positive vibes ++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++

and {{{{{{{{{{{{cyberhugs}}}}}}}}}}}}

xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

CountessDracula · 27/11/2006 22:36

MB so sad you are going but totally understand of course.

We will be here if you need us in the future

Thinking of you xx

brimfull · 27/11/2006 22:36

sorry to see you go MB I enjoy all your posts.
Love and positive thoughts to you and yours.

tamum · 27/11/2006 22:37

I also just wanted to say what a completely bloody lovely man he sounds.
xxx