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I'm going to say goodby

184 replies

Blandmum · 27/11/2006 22:18

THis isn't a flounce

It isn't an exercise in getting people to post asking me not to go. Goodness knows you have all bee more than supportive of me in the past, and for that you will always have my greatful thanks.

Please continue to think of dh in your positive vibes, he needs all the help that he can get.

At the moment my world is full of pan, everything causes more, even christmas shopping for my two beautiful children left me wretched, as I don't know how many more I have with my darling, darling husband. Everywhere I look I see things that cause me more pain.

and like a fool I posted to openly, rested my grief on a virtual world. And in the end I caused myself more pain, as if I ever need any more.

I don't know what is going to happen tomorrow. In my heart of hearts I feel it will be bad, my darling has got so ill so fast.

Thank you for all of your help. I'll be asking MN to remove all my many posts and to ban me.

Think kindly thoughts of my good sweet man. Tonight my ds told me 'When I grow up I'm going to treat my children like daddy treats us'. I', going to spend whatever time I have left with this good, patient loving gentle man and my kids.

Hx

OP posts:
nearlythree · 27/11/2006 23:37

God bless you and your family. You are in my thought and prayers. Vxxxx

NotAnOtter · 27/11/2006 23:37

xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Soapythelistmaker · 27/11/2006 23:44

I'm so sorry that you are going - but I have great admiration for your reasons for doing so

NorksBride · 27/11/2006 23:44

Words are failing me. I hope tomorrow isn't too hard. We ARE here whenever, if ever, you need us.

Warmest regards to you, your DH and your children. I wish you all well for the future.

lockets · 27/11/2006 23:44

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Freckle · 27/11/2006 23:46

Goodness MB, I must have missed previous threads about your problems, so I have no idea what is happening. I hope that tomorrow brings a better outcome than you expect and that you have many, many more months and years with your dh.

I have enjoyed conversing with you and truly hope that I will have the opportunity to do so again.

AitchTwoOh · 27/11/2006 23:54

night night, Martianbishop, you'll be missed on here. i wish for only good things for you...

Chandra · 27/11/2006 23:57

MB, I will be thinking of you.

I understand about trying to spend as much time as possible with your family. Enjoy every minute together and don't forget that with a bit of luck, things may get better. But don't forget that if you need support, here we are.

Many, many hugs

sandcastles · 28/11/2006 00:09

MB, my thoughts are with you & your family.

xx

SantaGotStuckUpTheGreensleeve · 28/11/2006 00:13

MB, I understand why you want space from MN after what's happened, everything muse be so overwhelming for you right now .

Don't ask them to ban you though. Leave the door open, just in case you change your mind.

My thoughts are with you and your dh and children, I don't know what else to say. ((((MB)))))

Soapythelistmaker · 28/11/2006 00:13

MB - I'm so sorry I wrote my last post on this thead before I saw what had happened.

You really, really didn't need that right now

Pixiefish · 28/11/2006 00:13

Martian Bishop.

PLease don't ask Mn to ban you so you can come back to us if you feel like it.

Thinking of you and your sweet dh and sending lots of love and hugs xxxx

swedishmum · 28/11/2006 00:15

Not really sure why I'm crying writing this. Just know you and your family sound fantastic, and wish you all the best in the coming months. Enjoy spending time with your husband and children, and all the bestxx

sunchowder · 28/11/2006 00:20

Dear MB, Sending you warm thoughts and I am so sorry for anything that was said to offend you.

mamama · 28/11/2006 00:42

Thinking of you and your family, MB x

threelittlegifts · 28/11/2006 00:51

What swedishmum said sums up my feelings perfectly
Take care xxx

babyox · 28/11/2006 03:21

Just wanted to wish you luck MB. Will be thinking of you x

BudaBeast · 28/11/2006 05:21

Oh MB really sorry that you feel this way although I can understand why.

Am praying that you get better news today regarding your DH.

As others have said - please don't shut the door on MN. Come back whenever you are ready.

Au revoir

WideWebWitch · 28/11/2006 05:30

Oh mb, I too wish you wouldn't go, although I totally understand your need to. I respect and admire your posts here too and will really miss you. I've been thinking of you and your dh and will continue to do so. I didn't see the ruck but I know how awful and affecting they can be here.

I hope you come back. xxx

niceglasses · 28/11/2006 07:13

MB thinking of you - such an awful time for you. Many thoughts - I hope you reconsider, but I understand your motives. Lots of luck and love.

biglips · 28/11/2006 07:19

MB im so sorry to hear about your DH. Ill be thinking of you and your family xxxxxx

iris66 · 28/11/2006 07:26

Thinking of you mb - much love from the "truckie" end of DH's firm x

munz · 28/11/2006 07:29

MB - MN will be a lot worse off not having you around.

I wish you and DH all the best thou, and hope and pray you'll all have some good news re his health soon.

ssd · 28/11/2006 07:39

don't know about whats happened, but I really wish you and your dh and your kids happiness and I hioe today goes as well as it can for you.

and I'm sorry if someone hurt you on here, I suppose virtual space is like rl in that there are arseholes evrywhere.

ssd [hugs to you all]xxx

LadyTophamHatt · 28/11/2006 07:41

Oh shit MB.

I understand 100% why you want to go but I am sitting here in tears. Real proper tears.
I've cried at a few post over the yrs on here but what you've just written has left me feeling absolutley gutted for us here and for you and your family.
I wish you would stay and I wish with every bit fibre, molecule, atom...every bit of me that your darling DH pulls through.

Take Care MB, I'll miss you.