****Mumsnetter NEEDS a break from her DH, can anyone help??****

[monkeytrousers]

Tamba and her two little ones needs some serious R&R asap. \link{http://www.mumsnet.com/Talk?topicid=7&threadid=181443\see here}

Lets see what mumsnet can do!

(Hope you don't mind Tamba, I though this might help with the details in thread title)

How are things, Tamba?

Things are ok, Mil is doing my head in though but staying well away from me so thats not too much of a problem

We had a nice day at the park yesterday and are still being friendly. We have a CAB appointment tomorrow - not looking forward to that!

I am quite enjoying having more freedom, but i think that will change when he goes back to work and I am totally on my own again. My family still dont know and I dont know how to tell them. They think the sun shines out of his arse.

I do miss him though, but I dont want to go back to how things were so am trying not to get caught up in his 'making an effort' stage.

Will update properly later, I am off for a bath :)

As you probably know, I am having problems with my parents regarding our situation too. They think of H as golden boy & I am the baddie here.
You are sounding very strong, Tamba.

Tamba, is it just you who has the CAB appointment? Or are you going together? Are you both seeking advice regarding your situation? The reason I ask is that CAB cannot advise you both as there would be a conflict of interest. It would be OK if you were to go to different bureaux, but you can't really both go to the same bureau for advice on your separate situations.

How did it go today Tambamamba?