Carla, I posted on the original thread, and from what I recall I wasn't at all nasty or bitchy. I did mention that £1200 is alot of money for someone to have to spend depending on what they had to buy with it.
I for one was just so utterly confused by the whole thread.
I agree that if you are used to having alot more money a month than that, and your dh can afford for you to have more money than that, that he is being very unreasonable and controlling.
Thing is, if you had explained a bit more at the start and answered questions (i don't mean the show us you bc bill one) then it wouldn't have kicked off, because without us knowing what you normally have, how could we say if it was wrong of him or not ?