You can get wooden toys in lots of places in Milan, citta' del sole, imaginarium, la giocheria, fortura giocattoli etc etc. I just got dd a wooden bunk bed for her dollies!!!
Yes, wooden toys are more expensive, but it was the same in Exeter. There was only one shop selling "nice" toys there, the rest was plastic tat.
So, I think that getting wooden toys (or more creative toys) might be linked to the parents socio cultural conditions.
Yes, I agree that italians often aren't organized when out and about with their children. It seems like lots of Italians don't have a clue about what to do with their children. Not all, but lots.
Lasagne... I usually make lasagne with radicchio and pancetta.