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Penetration man

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Cameron2012 · 21/08/2016 20:44

So I went out with a man many years ago who was very kind, interesting handsome, drove a lovely car and was very popular. But, I ended the relationship because he seemed to think whispering ' penetration' in my ear was sexy.
I also finished with a bloke because he had thick blond hair on his arms.
Now I know that means at the time I was very shallow, so ... What is the shallowest reason you have ever had to finish a relationship ?
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FayaMAMA · 27/08/2016 02:31

I once dated a guy who would kiss me wildly and passionately downstairs/on the stairs/against the walls but as soon as you got to the bedroom he would take SO long to take his clothes off (and mine) and get the bed "ready" and choose which lights to have on/off I just ended up unaroused and uncomfortable by the end of it. We were teenagers. It was hopeless. But it was an absolute deal breaker for me.

flightywoman · 27/08/2016 13:52

My fuckbuddy told me he would never be in love with me because I walked wrong and was rubbish at bowling.

I wasn't in love with him either, but my reasons weren't quite as shallow as that!

A ONS got stockings out and asked me to put them on. His house was in a state of extreme renovation, no loo, no floor in half of it. It was a fucking death trap. We didn't contact one another again.

OrangeSquashTallGlass · 27/08/2016 15:43

Called me 'good girl' while we were DTD. Not a great time to be made to feel like a child/dog.

Pawprintz · 27/08/2016 15:57

Went out with a scruffy bugger whose clothes always smelt of mildew and who put blankets on his windows instead of curtains.

He was a terrible kisser (thrusting tongue until I gagged) and very selfish in bed I had to bring myself off

He was nasty as well. Binned him early on.

Also dumped creepy guy who had a fetish about me putting my menstrual blood in his hair and being "forced" to go out in public in that state. I didn't fulfil this fantasy..

BeingATwatItsABingThing · 27/08/2016 16:08

Dumped a guy who was truly shocking in bed. No concept of foreplay so it was a bit...umm...dry down there. Painful! And it went on for what felt like HOURS! He never did finish, I just shoved him off me because I couldn't cope anymore. He asked if I wanted to do it again later and I just said no. I think he thought he'd done a good job. Confused

AndDontCallMeShirley · 27/08/2016 16:40

Paw I'm lost for words eeeeewwwwwuuugh

Pawprintz · 27/08/2016 16:44

Anddont - I know, shudder.

He also wanted me to use a cut throat razor on his bits.

Scary bloke.

ocelot41 · 27/08/2016 17:10

Oh no OrangeSquash! I think I have met him! Is his initial G?

Also baby talk boy 'Davey Wavey wants a blowjob'. Bleurgh.

Pencilman

The guy who used to steal his sister's underwear (and wear it)

The man who I had fancied for a good year who made EXACTLY the same noises as my white Scottie dog did when it was humping a cushion

The guy who had to use handcuffs because he couldn't be arsed for me to move

The woman who decided she was in love with a man who wanted her sleep with other men (which she did to 'please' him, not because she was into it).

A guy whose chin had one of those bumface clefts in it.

Got around, me...

Pawprintz · 27/08/2016 17:26

The man who I had fancied for a good year who made EXACTLY the same noises as my white Scottie dog did when it was humping a cushion

I am crying with laughter!!! Hahaha! Love it.

ocelot41 · 27/08/2016 17:32

The dog even used to watch its reflection in the French windows whilst humping. Couldnt shake the image....

AndDontCallMeShirley · 27/08/2016 18:24

Paw I was grossed out by mine they got the old heave ho before any sec took place. I'm in no way a prude but fucking hell! Off to bleach this from my memory

Pawprintz · 27/08/2016 19:33

Anddont

Definitely the weirdest man I've ever met.

Pass me the brain bleach when you've done with it Shock

AndDontCallMeShirley · 27/08/2016 21:26

Paw weird doesn't cover it!

Take my brain bleach you need if more than me Grin

AndDontCallMeShirley · 27/08/2016 21:27

Paw weird doesn't cover it!

Take my brain bleach you need if more than me Grin

ThatAussieBogan · 27/08/2016 23:40

After meaning to for ages, I've finally bitten the bullet. I love a good Penis thread (seems to always boil down to that) so entirely appropriate that I do it now.

You guys know that the Penis Beaker thread is famous right? Mention Penis Beaker on any Aus parent's forum and everyone knows what one is.
We have to behave though which sucks (and means lot brilliant stories remain untold) but we always have a few that stick for years.

Two would fit in here. One is the farmer with a case of free willy. His new gf didn't know until he actually TOLD her that night. I have no fucking idea why, it's certainly a mood killer.
He was in the paddock with bobby calves and didn't realise apparently that his willy had somehow escaped so very cleverly on it's own and was flapping in the wind. It then also took him even longer to realise a bobby calf had had decided it was a convenient teat and sucking away like all bobby calves do.

The OP had posted basically to ask how the hell to get it through to her friend (the new gf) that it was whooole lot of amazing coincidences and bobby calves not only have sandpaper like tongues but can suck like a Dyson.
Apart from the hysterics we just REALLY wanted to know the address, though a visit by the RSPCA may be in order lol.
Thread is still there, the OP deleted what she said but you get the gist.

One thread that vanished (we need a Classics forum too, so many want one) but stuck is carrot boy. If memory serves me right it was the OP's DH too.
Turned out that while she slept he'd been making midnight forays to the fridge and not to eat. If I'm right in how it happened it was the she woke up for some reason and noticed a slight light in the kitchen from the open fridge and probably though her kids were raiding it.
Not quite.

Seems her DH had a very special love for carrots. A REALLY special one. And once that had sunk in then another even worse thought came to mind. Just how many carrots had been served up a dinner time?

I'll pop back with mine and see if DD 17 is reading (I sent her link). We'll all know if she is when she works out which one is her father.

But hello anyway and yes, I just HAD to pick such a cliched name. I know there's a few of us here. My claim to fame however is that I'm from Tassie which people always find, err, interesting.
Disclaimer I was born and raised in Vic....I use that a lot. I. Was. No. Born. Here. Just being clear.

Btw how the feck do you do smileys? The normal things didn't work. And shit, oops, that was a long intro. Sorry about that.

GlitterGlassEye · 27/08/2016 23:49

What?! Was he banging his own arse with carrots?!!!

ThatAussieBogan · 27/08/2016 23:58

Actually one comes to mind now. He was responsible for a few things.

My first acorn. That sucked as the sexual energy was huge and stayed that way, we had a rather illicit affair that went on and off for years that started when DD 17 was 1 and I had gone back to work.
Divorced ex-h as he cheated when she was a newborn. Bastard. I was only 24 too.

A year or so in I found he was pee'er too. Ok, fair enough, I'm up for new stuff. Towels on the bathroom floor and I felt like I'd been preparing for a bloody ultrasound by sculling water so figured "Yep, this'll be easy".
Nope. We'd get right into it and he loved to talk dirty. Was a growler too.

Problem was each time we reached that crucial point his usual dirty talk combined the thought of actually peeing on him set off the giggles. Every time. He was so into it and as much he wished I was pissing myself laughing I wasn't, I was just laughing.
I even turned the shower on, that always works. Nup. If he hadn't been so serious and saw the hilarious side I probably could have done it but I was doubled over on top of him and had tears running down my face as I in hysterics.

That going back to work bit is crucial. He was my boss. In hindsight if there's ever a way to get an upper hand in the workplace it has to be peeing on your boss.

What ended it is what I'll come back with. Two words. Gear stick.

ThatAussieBogan · 27/08/2016 23:59

GlitterGlassEyes, yep. Rather enjoying it too.

MumiTravels · 28/08/2016 00:05

I feel very shallow but many of my rejections have been penis related.

A banana shaped one

A pencil

A whopper that was far too painful

And the one that tried to ram it in without preparing the area. Every. Single. Time.

GlitterGlassEye · 28/08/2016 00:12

Oh my fucking word. I had carrots with dinner tonight. Chantennay carrots tho so he probably wouldn't have bothered with them lol.

PollyCazaletWannabe · 28/08/2016 00:42

I had pencil dick guy too.
And another guy who, when I was giving him a blow job, suddenly started shouting my name with increasing urgency (not in a passionate way, more in the way you would shout if you saw someone about to walk in front of a bus) and yelling I'M GOING TO COME! POLLY! I'M GOING TO COME! Like he expected me to be surprised and horrified...

ThatAussieBogan · 28/08/2016 00:53

Terribly boring this one but one guy I dumped partly because he not only ate black pudding but kept in my fucking fridge.

Oh, and people thought he was my dad.

I was 25 and looked younger, he was 35 and looked older. I know my accents, I'm half Bogan, half British, raised in a British family.

Swore he was Irish. He was from Newcastle. Bugger.

At the Show we stopped at a sideshow and the woman did her spiel and said "C'mon Dad, let her have a go!". I'm a bit evil so said to him "please daddy?" and gave him the biggest kiss and bum grope ever.
She shut up.

Actually he was a great shag, maybe we're pinching your good ones? No idea what he saw in me as he even proposed and that was after the Black pudding incident.
I had found that fucker in my fridge one morning while he was in the shower so did the only thing I could do. Ran madly into the bathroom yelling "Ecky Thump!" and smacked him around the head with it.

He proposed a few days later. Huh.

AndDontCallMeShirley · 28/08/2016 03:35

ThatAussie you do know that mans a keeper. What kind of black pudding was it? I would be salivating seeing that in my fridge and temper to buy some scallops and garlic to go with it.

Wish a man would leave a pud in my fridge off to check just incase

travellinglighter · 28/08/2016 08:13

Can I just say, I've checked, no bananas, pencils, mushrooms, marrows or any other root vegetables spring to mind when I look down in the shower and I'm eternally grateful. 😆😆😆😆

QueenOfTheAndals · 28/08/2016 08:30

I love black pud so wouldn't have a problem with that.

Unless of course "black pudding" is an euphemism for something else...

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