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D'ya ever wonder if you could still do the twist and not actually wet yourself in the process?

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shabbs · 20/11/2014 23:33

New thread my friends xxx

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bubby64 · 23/01/2015 21:02

So sorry to hear about your neighbour Trips - life is so rotten sometimes Ã?Ã?Ã?Ã?

bubby64 · 23/01/2015 21:03

What happened there, they were meant to be kisses trips

Minisoksmakehardwork · 23/01/2015 21:15

:( trips. Xxx

James got a sticker for fab reading and the class reading trophy in assembly today. Then he scored a goal in football training today too!

Meanwhile Jen is queen Klingon/limpet and Joshua is my funny boy Grin

triplets · 24/01/2015 07:19

Morning girls, my neighbour is still hanging on bless him :( Well done to your James Soks, bet he was proud of himself :) Up early all week, should be having a nice lay in but cant seem to sleep past 6am, annoying! Just seem to be living hand to mouth atm, BIG credit card bill in from Christmas and had dks b/day and next the kids b/day on Tues. They will be 17.........cant believe it, its all flown by, Matthew would be 36 this year, breaks my heart to think of all the years he and we have missed :( Love you Matthew xxxxxxxxxxx

Got worried y/day as our surgery phoned up and asked to speak with Thomas. They wanted his permission to send medical records up to the Army. We have already done that. Just worried that they are now going to be picky and question the reason why he has been seeing a cardiologist, what happened to Matthew should not be held against any of these three.

Stop it Anne.......not going to be sad

Minisoksmakehardwork · 24/01/2015 17:08

Squeeeeee! My friends' little boy is home Grin proper champ he is. Couple of weeks earlier than due date so they're very happy indeed.

Chopstheduck · 25/01/2015 21:50

Evening ladies. I have MOVED at last!! Three seventeen hour days and we are mostly unpacked! sooo tired!

Love to everyone and hopefully catch up with you properly soon x

triplets · 25/01/2015 22:16

Much love to Chops and all the little Chopsticks in your new home :)

Minisoksmakehardwork · 26/01/2015 07:54

Hope you're soon comfy in your new home chops. X

Minisoksmakehardwork · 26/01/2015 07:54

Hope you're soon comfy in your new home chops. X

bubby64 · 26/01/2015 17:18

congrats on new home Chops and chopetts, hope you all settle in well,Brew Thanks
soks -well done to your James Grin and glad everyone is ok there
Trips- know what you mean, skint here too, I'm sure it will be ok with the records. Also glad neighbour is hanging on in there. Please try to keep your spirits up. Thanks
Shabs - you ok love??
DH has given me and my j his cold, so we are both coughing, sneezing and generally feeling like c**p. Kept J off school today, much to Ms disgust. Trouble is, as soon as M came home they started fighting over a bloody xbox game, so confiscated both hard drives again.Angry
As fo my back, I thought I was doing well, until I went into the local town to get new school shoes for M on Saturday, and found out I still cannot be up and walking around for long which has also pissed me offSad Sad Sad

shabbs · 26/01/2015 22:41

Evening girls xx

Chops - hope you are soon settled and enjoying your new home.

Bubbs - Im OK thank you - whatever the hell OK is xxx

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triplets · 26/01/2015 23:01

Evening girls.........my emotions are all over the place, dear Wynn is still with us, the poor family are backwards and forwards. Had a horrid row with dk last night, and my dcs will be 17 tomorrow.............where has the time gone too?17 years ago tonight, I was in Canterbury hospital, ward which had 4 mums in with their new born babies. I felt like a celebrity as they were all gobsmacked I was having triplets.............at my age!! Just remember feeling soooo excited, couldnt wait to see them, would there be a little girl.......my dear Mum and Dad sat at home so excited.......oh it was a lovely time. So sad my three didnt have their grandparents for long, so sad........
Made two cakes tonight..............one has failed so off to M&S in the morning!!
Night night xx

triplets · 26/01/2015 23:07

and here they are.........utterly adorable.......xxx

D'ya ever wonder if you could still do the twist and not actually wet yourself in the process?
shabbs · 26/01/2015 23:14

I remember when I had Tom you sent me a birth congratulation card...on the back of the envelope you wrote - NOT ONE, NOT TWO BUT THREE!!! Remember being almost 41 and BF Tom and reading the back of the envelope over and over.

You sent me copies of those pictures and I still have them.

I take my hat off to you my dear friend. I struggled with one precious baby and you had three - how weird the paths our lives take. xxxxxxx

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triplets · 26/01/2015 23:55

aww thank you........they were such beautiful, easy babies.........I loved every single minute of it............much much harder now!!

Chopstheduck · 27/01/2015 09:53

Happy birthday to triplets' trio! xx

Hope they are having a lovely day.

I am unbelievably tired. I don't think I was this tired when the twins were babies! Since I am a gym freak, I didn't get achy but my hands are so dry, tender, and cracked! It hurts even to type. I think this will be the last time we ever try to move wihtout professional help. BIL helped a LOT, but there was just so much of it! Four wardrobes, four beds, etc - it took us three days just to get it all reassembled and sorted. Just Jack's desk to do now, a lot of cleaning and a few odd jobs.

The house is lovely though. There is so much more space. We're no longer on top of each other, and it seems very much more peaceful. I was a bit worried about the lack of loft or garage, but everything seems to have fitted in fine apart from the tumble drier which is currently in the hallway, supposed to be getting rid, but can't quite part with it yet!

And then dd came down this morning with red hair! Numpty child decided that a Tues morning would be a good time to play with hair chalks. She has been bugging me about going brunette for a year or so. I keep telling her it wouldn't suit her - she is very fair, blonde and incredibly blue eyes. So she thought she would colour her hair in brown with chalks. It came out vivid red!! I can't wait to hear what the school have said. I did send her back for another shower, but it still wouldn't all wash out. I really don't know why she is so desperate to change her hair! She is such a pretty girl, and her hair is lovely as it is. Angry

Minisoksmakehardwork · 27/01/2015 10:11

Happy birthday to your trips, Trips WineThanks

I am envious of your new roomy house already chops. I also think we've got another bloody rat so call gone in to rat-catcher.

bubby64 · 27/01/2015 22:45

Belated happy birthday to you lovely Trio, Trips, I hope you got the cake sorted and both DH and dd behaved themselves.
Chops, glad you are already almost settled, and the extra room has made a difference
Soks - oh no! hope the pest control people can sort you out.
Shabs - well, glad you are relatively ok, I hope things are fairly settled and your mum is ok, and db is behaving himself

triplets · 27/01/2015 23:10

Why is it I try soo hard to make things nice, then end up getting upset? Bloody Wetherspoons!! Phoned this morning to reserve a table for 8 of us tonight, we never eat out its usually far too expensive, but this place is very reasonable. So phoned and was told they no longer reserve tables. So I asked what were the chances we could all get in around 6.30-7pm tonight? She said what I could do was get there early, let the bar staff know I was there, might have to have a drink whilst waiting but as tables come free they would push two together. So I am the advance party, go down by bus and arrive at 6.30pm. The place was heaving. Went to the bar and told them about my phone call, the girl went to find the duty manageress. She asked me what I wanted and I told her about the phone call. Bloody hell she was so rude to me in front of all the customers. Said I had been told they dont take reservations, I was welcome to wait, could be an hour, 2 hours but they could not put us all on one table, too busy we would have to sit where we could. So I said its my childrens b/day, we dont want to be all split up, and she just said there is nothing she could do, I obviously hadnt listened when I was told no reservations!! Basically there were so busy they wouldnt miss our money! I was fuming, the others were on their way by car and there I was pacing up and down, wanting to scream and in fact cry! In the end we ended up in a soulless Chinese restaurant, food was ok, not generous and cost us over twice as much as Wetherspoons! I was glad to get home!

Minisoksmakehardwork · 28/01/2015 08:13

Oh trips. That's awful. It might just be that particular one though. All our local spoons' reserve tables and move them together if needed. They could have told you if it was going to be their busy time though to save you the trip. It's not like they wouldn't have known that.

Ratty has eaten a muslin cloth, tea towel and had a go at a bag of chocolate lollipops. Waiting to hear back from rat catcher. No signs this morning and I deliberately cleared the kitchen bar some citrus fruits and closed the door overnight. But obv it's not healthy to have a rat in the house so it needs sorting properly now. Am hoping we can get it sorted pretty soon though.

Trips - next time you fancy going out for a meal, have a look and get a free trial of taste card. I get one through my bank now (dh had just paid half price for a year card. Gutted). But you can get bogof/half price meals in places listed in their book. Our nearest chippy is a member, can feed a family of 6 for £6 there! Prezzo are a new addition and many local places accept it. One of our Indians takes it which makes for a really cheap night as its a bring your own drink place. Most of them don't take it on a Friday evening but it's no hardship to go a different day instead. A lot even allow you to apply the card up to a certain number of people rather than the individual who holds it. Our Indian applies it to a max booking of 6. We've got round it before by two people having a card and dividing the bill appropriately.

Chopstheduck · 28/01/2015 15:01

aw trips :(

I would complain directly to Weatherspoons, you may get some vouchers! I've had vouchers a few times after crappy experiences. Agree with Soks too, Tastecard is great. We usually use our tesco vouchers for eating out too.

Do hope you get Ratty sorted soon, soks!

I'm still tired. Can't wait for the weekend! Picked dd up a futon thing this morning, that took hour and half in traffic. Then had other odd jobs to do. Been trying to do a bit of comping, but finding it hard to focus! Boys bday is already sorted at least. Had a pretty good month really.

Minisoksmakehardwork · 28/01/2015 18:53

Rodent man came. Seems it's very unlikely to be ratty. There are old rat droppings, but nothing fresh. He's not convinced I saw a rat but rather a mouse with shadow!! Either way, I'm glad there is no fresh ratty evidence. More recent mice droppings under the cupboard and in the loft. Lots of bait has been liberally applied under kitchen cupboards, in loft and under bath - he showed me where mice have been squeezing through a pipe hole.

It appears without being able to remove a very stubborn kickboard (believed to be glued in) from directly under the sink, it's very very hard to see where they may be getting in. There is a gap under our eaves which looks like a plastic vent has fallen out and it's possible they're getting up next to our telephone line access point. But increasingly likely they are travelling between houses - backed up by neighbours coming out once man had gone and one of them saying they've had mice since at least xmas.

So I've to block up those holes and leave the bait for a few days before checking on it. If it's mice, they'll strip the bait to get at the middle husk so we will have teeny bits left. If it's rats, they'll eat the whole thing so nothing will be left. Was quite an interesting discussion really about the differences between mice and rats.

It's also likely today that I will be down by some parents as an awful/abusive parent. We were late to school. Emily and James both went in shoeless and emily hadn't had her hair brushed!

They both refused to go to school today. Wouldn't cooperate at all so I gave up and did everything else needed to get twins ready for school, put them in the car, grabbed the big twos shoes, a hairbrush, their coats and book bags and ordered them in to the car. Got to school, ordered them to the office (still shoeless) and took the twins over to preschool - why should they be late/I have to worry about them running round the school while I sort the big two. Then went into school to sort emily and James out. I did have one mum ask if I knew emily had no shoes... Er, yes. And carried on walking. Two other parents congratulated me Blush. Needless to say they came out of school in a slightly better mood, helped no doubt by dh finishing work early and being there for pick up.

I'd also decided that even though we had a bad start to the morning, perhaps doing something nice for them might help us move past that. So I bought them some mini eggs as a treat for after tea. Gave the kids theirs, had mine and left dh's out on the worktop (he'd gone out) while I took the twins up to bed. Came down to find the box missing. So the nice thing I did ended up with E&J being sent to bed early for lying and for eating treats which weren't theirs and certainly without asking.

They did quite quickly confess. But neither have thought to say sorry yet. Although weirdly both went to bed without a whimper so I'm pretty sure they're tired and grateful for the excuse of an early night.

Minisoksmakehardwork · 29/01/2015 09:34

Still waiting for the shed load of snow which is supposed to be heading our way.

triplets · 29/01/2015 22:39

Though it was expected I am very sad tonight, my lovely friend and neighbour of 24 years, Wynn died this afternoon. I shall miss our long chats in the garden, a wise kind man. God Bless. xx

shabbs · 30/01/2015 06:39

Morning girls xx

So sorry to hear sad news Trips. xxx

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