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Struggling

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Sarahlouisemamofgirls · 11/01/2026 15:18

Afternoon. Does anyone know of anywhere I can get food today for me and my daughters. Struggling to make ends meet completely now as a single mum to 4 and no food banks are open today. Thankyou

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ColdBlueSky · 11/01/2026 15:20

Where are you based?
Have you family, friends or neighbours who can help?
Also download the Olio app.

Sarahlouisemamofgirls · 11/01/2026 15:22

Hi I'm in the northeast, sunderland area . Unfortunately not no I've tried asking for help however giving the time of year I think everyone is in the same boat. I will download olio and see what it's about thankyou 😊

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Fends · 11/01/2026 15:27

Have you got a bit of cash, coins in a money box or Tesco clubcard points or nectar? Get down to the nearest shop and a bag of pasta and a jar of sauce will feed 5 of you for today. There’s likely to be some reduced bread, so you could get that and beans or spaghetti hoops.

Tomorrow go to citizens advice and speak to them about a food bank referral and ask about local food clubs and check you’re getting everything you’re entitled to

ColdBlueSky · 11/01/2026 15:27

Are your girls in school tomorrow?

SmittenApple · 11/01/2026 15:28

Tell us what you have In your cupboards, fridge and freezer and we could help with suggestions

Sarahlouisemamofgirls · 11/01/2026 15:30

I don't I honestly don't even have 2 pence to rub together at the moment, I do work and claim uc I've tried asking for an advance however my earnings were too high lastmonth, I'm paid 4 weekly from work so this month looks as though I've been paid twice which I haven't it's an absolute nightmare when you have little ones depending on you

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Sarahlouisemamofgirls · 11/01/2026 15:31

Yeah they are in school tomorrow xx

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SmittenApple · 11/01/2026 15:31

You literally do not have a thing in fridge, cupboard or freezer?

SmittenApple · 11/01/2026 15:32

How old are the 4 children?

ShittyGlitter · 11/01/2026 15:32

Could you pop an anonymous post on your local Facebook page? Lots of people around my area help others when they are really struggling.

Sarahlouisemamofgirls · 11/01/2026 15:32

I don't unfortunately all resources gone.

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SmittenApple · 11/01/2026 15:32

Have you downloaded the app mentioned above yet? If not, focus on doing that… it can be brilliant

Ilovemychocolate · 11/01/2026 15:33

Do you have any food in at all?

Sarahlouisemamofgirls · 11/01/2026 15:33

Hi the girls are 11, 9, 7 and 1 x

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Sarahlouisemamofgirls · 11/01/2026 15:33

Hi the girls are 11, 9, 7 and 1 x

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SmittenApple · 11/01/2026 15:33

Sarahlouisemamofgirls · 11/01/2026 15:32

I don't unfortunately all resources gone.

You are saying that you don’t have a single thing - not even some slices of bread and jam?

Have you checked to make sure not some pasta at the back?

what did they have for breakfast and lunch?

Sarahlouisemamofgirls · 11/01/2026 15:34

Yeah downloaded and registered not alot food wise in my area but I'm still looking thankyou so much x

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SmittenApple · 11/01/2026 15:34

Did they receive any money for Christmas from relatives?

Is their father in any way involved?

ColdBlueSky · 11/01/2026 15:38

You had a very similar thread back in October. Did you get sorted then?

Sarahlouisemamofgirls · 11/01/2026 15:38

Nothing at all ive been running on very little if I had anything there I'd make it but unfortunately I haven't. X

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Sarahlouisemamofgirls · 11/01/2026 15:39

Yeah I got sorted then it took a few days but yes worked out in the end thankyou x

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SmittenApple · 11/01/2026 15:39

I say this delicately…. Is social services involved with your family? If so, contact the OOH line and explain th situation. This will NOT reflect badly on you.

You children going in to school and telling staff that they haven’t eaten anything in 24 hours WILL reflect badly on you though.

Sarahlouisemamofgirls · 11/01/2026 15:40

No they didn't and no he's not it's a very raw subject at the moment x

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SmittenApple · 11/01/2026 15:40

Nothing we can do

focus on the app, it’s good.

Sarahlouisemamofgirls · 11/01/2026 15:41

They have already eaten today I'm struggling for tea and tomorrow ect that's why I'm asking if anyone knows of a food bank open?

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