Sorry, I admit it was an ill-advised and probably wine induced post by me.
I didn't post to criticise her lifestyle, choices or anything, I just wanted a Yes or No to confirm the situation as I was confused.
I'll ask for it to be removed.
(Disclaimer - and before you all have me down as a lush for drinking that early in the evening, I don't normally, it was a one-off with a friend after she'd had a shitty week and I'd been to a funeral)