Husband has had a unknown child pop up we didn't know about what does this mean if the CSA comes after him?

[Cheekychica10]

Ok I have two children with my husband a preschooler and a baby,
We've both been contacted recently by a girl he had a one night stand with many many years ago and it turns out he has another child ,
We live a good eight hours away so contact is not going to be easy , aswell as many emotions this has brought up for us both . This may sound selfish however I am very concerned about our finances , this may be cynical of me but I believe this is going to boil down to money- having looked on the CSA website and working out what we would have to pay - it would really have a massive effect on us- the amount she would receive for her child is far greater than what free cash we have each month for our own children, there website doesn't take into account any debt / mortgage / food / bills we have to pay for ourselves - and this is feeling incredibly unfair to me,

I'm also worried about my husband he takes family very seriously and adores his children with me and he is by far the best father i could wish for- the most we can offer in terms of contact is a few hours in a contact centre possibly three or four times a year - I would love to welcome
This child into our family and our home I am more than happy to have this child every other school holiday / Christmas etc - but I cannot imagine that day will be for many years as my husband and the mother do not even know each other in reality , aecondly this child has a family unit a mum a sister and her mums boyfriend who she calls dad , so is a few hours a few times a year slowly building up contact worth disrupting everything ?

I have a question, so a female is trying to say she has a daughter by my husband but this is not the first time the same one claimed she was pregnant with twins before, this Was in 2015 these were all just stories, now she contacted again saying she has a little girl by my husband and it’s breaking up our marriage what do I do

I’m not sure if I’m doing this right but here it goes again,
Someone is trying to break up my marriage by saying she’s got a child with my husband, they are talking I’m afraid of losing him and I know she’s lying because she’s done it before saying she had twins with him he knew she was lying before but now all of a sudden he’s claiming that he has a daughter with her and there is no proof I have a screenshot of when she claimed she had twins with their names, But the little girls name is different and there’s no talk of a boy and a friend of hers contacted me and told me that they were talking and are planning on getting together again

First step would be a paternity test I would say.

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