Emmsys angels xxx support for mummies of lost angels part 4 xxxxx

[littlebellsmum]

Less sadness, more joy but always lots of lovely people who understand

LovelyPear you don't sound callous at all, I'm sorry you're having a hard time. Its a normal reaction to a miscarriage, to be desperate to be pregnant again but scared to death of how you'd cope with being pregnant again. Its just over 2 months since my MMC at 10wks.

Thanks Graciegirl. I've had quite a positive day today so feeling optimistic tonight . DH is out this evening so I am going to do some yoga and then watch telly and munch biscuits.

Hope everyone else is ok? It's v quiet on here lately...

LovelyPear - pleased you had a good day, yoga, biscuits and crap telly sounds like a good plan.
Your need to be pregnant again is completly understandable - I remeber it well, I didn't want to be only 1 w pregnant, though, I wanted to be at the 10 weeks I was when I lost the ( unplanned) LO. I'd be about 19 weeks now..... However, onwards and upwards, I;m not but given a bit of luck and lots of bding, we will be and soon!!

Take care of your self

Thanks LBM, I'm sure you will be pg again soon. Both DH and I are v much looking forward to the bd ban being lifted !

Scorpio, hope all went well with your DH?

xx

Hi everyone - I hope you are all feeling okay and haven't had too bad weekends.
Does anyone know how long you tend to bleed for after a non-surgical m/c. I don't remember it going on for this long when I had the ERPC. It doesn't really seem to be getting any less and it's been 7 days now (though not getting any worse either).

Hi Jacanne
Mine went on for 10 days...
I don't think there's anything to worry about yet

hi Jacanne, it's been nearly 2 weeks for me and in the last couple of days it has slowed to brown spotting. Can't wait for it to stop!

I know what you mean, it's like a constant reminder that you don't really need and I loathe wearing towels. I think it actually might be slowing a little today - it's still really pink though.

I hope yours stops soon LP.

I'm with you there - pads are horrid! Hope it stops for you soon too. xx

hi girls, sorry haven't been on in a while, i have actually been reading all your comments just not posting. i was here in spirit

apologies if i upset or depress anyone; i found out on weds that i am pg again but am torn between being stupidly excited and being really scared for my tiny bean. its only very early days so i am desperately hoping this time is the one.

jacanne i bled for around 10 days, it will stop even though it feels like it won't.

waves to all the other girls xxxxxxxx

Bluemoon - that's wonderful news and I'll keep everything crossed for you that your little bean sticks

thank you jacanne

i know its a bit cheeky to post my news on here, but until i know for sure everything is ok i think i will still loiter around here if no one minds....

BlueMoon So pleased for you! That's wonderful news and I think this thread needs a little hope.
Hope you're sitting with your feet up, relaxing and smiling to yourself. You must think positively and take it all one day at a time.
I hope you'll post on the onwards and upwards when you feel ready as there are a few newly pg ladies on there who know exactly how you are feeling.
Congratulations again.

Hi to everyone else.

thank you neeko and how are you?

i haven't told anyone yet apart from bf of course, but i wanted to tell you ladies because you have all been there for me and i will never forget all your support and kindness. i wanted to give you all some hope from someone who has been in your shoes.

That was a nice thing to do.I hope you are feeling ok. How long has it been since your MC?
I think I'm on 2ww. Had a +ive on opk last week and still no sign of AF since MC (It's been 5 weeks since ERPC)so fingers crossed she's not coming at all. I know my chances are slight, but...

neeko i found out on 4th feb (day before my birthday ) that i had an mc. i had one af between mc and finding out i was pg. i never expected it to happen so soon, i was hoping but didnt think it would happen!

fingers crossed for you neeko it will be your turn soon i hope

Thanks BlueMoon I'm trying not to build my hopes up as I know it's early days to be TTC again. Congratulations again. really hope you'r beans very sticky. Is this your 1st?

i know, its hard not to build your hopes up though isn't it, i'm sure i was imagining symptoms when i wasn't pg yet (!), but its good that you are keeping positive

yes this will be our 1st (if he/she sticks this time)

Have a list of phantom symptoms the length of my arm
Sending you lots of sticky thoughts. Now get to bed woman, you need LOTS of rest!!

i'm glad it wasn't just me then!

i am off to bed very soon, thank you for looking after me!

Any time Night night.

night night sleep tight

ladies hi.

bluemoon wow! fantastic news.

i still can't stop eating!!! and get sad several times a day.

but it is much better then it was. and dh and i are very close atm which makes everything feel better.

Hi ladies, we're back from our lovely hols. It was a great week and very healing for me. We also spent lots of time cuddling our lovely goddaughter who is 11 months which was sooooo lovely ...I practically cried seeing my DH with her he was so cute can't wait for one of my own!

Hope everyone's ok, have tried to catch up a bit- bluemoon congrats, amazing news and gives us all hope
BonyM I stopped bleeding Thurs, exactly 2 weeks after my medical management so that was a relief, but for the first week I was still passing quite large clots.
Iggypiggy hope you're feeling a little better, Know exactly what you mean about wanting people to know and not wanting them to know! It's s hard. I've told a lot of people recently and it has actually been quite therapeutic (and incredible how many of them have said 'oh I have one too' or 'my mum/sister/aunt ha one'...it really is so common, sadly)

Anyway, just wanted to say hi, and sad welcomes to all the newbies

Bluemoon - fantasic news! Hope is great thing on this thread. Lets hope there's more soon - Neeko.....