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Emmsys angels xxx support for mummies of lost angels part 3 xxxxx

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christmasBarbielovesSanta · 17/12/2008 11:52

so here we are on part three, let this one be fun of happy news.....

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Curlywurlee · 08/01/2009 23:56

Thanks Scamper. I'm not going to do a test yet as I think if I ovulated on day 23 then it would be too early to test. But I'm going to give the hospital a call tomorrow and see if they have my test results.

I am so excited for you honey. Please don't go anywhere. We are with you all the way.

Off to bed myself so take care and talk soon. xxx

mermaidspurse · 09/01/2009 10:02

hi sweeties just popped in to sprinke some hugs, kisses and a wee bit of baby dust.
scamper it is the hardest thing just hang in there with the one day at a time mantra. I asked about asprin, doing the clutching at straws act in the surgery the other day and was told that as I had ds there was nothing wrong with my blood. Ask, it would maybe put your mind at rest and that I feel is very important for all of us at the moment.
curlywurlee ohh those little blips! fingers crossed for you
4ever hope you are ok, taking it easy and looking after yourself. I began to feel sick yesterday so a very happy mermaid indeed! someone just had to say egg samwhich to me this morning and I was gone! I am taking this as a good sign and trying to hang in untill we see the consultant on Monday when I will stamp tail and ask for a scan. 4th time round I cant live on hope and symptons alone.
barbiesuch an exciting (and mega busy) time for you. I am sure that once settled on your deck chair happy times will follow, travel safely and fair winds.
jonesy my heart goes out to you sweetie, trying to beat the clock and managing our dh/dp is a juggling act. This lo will be the last attempt for us. I will be 41 in a few months and my poor dh is worried about life the universe and everything. I am a strong believer that things do work out. And on that note off to try and do a bit of work, heaps of lovex

Curlywurlee · 09/01/2009 11:02

Mornin Mermaidspurse, LOL at you being happy about feeling sick . You hang in there. Good luck with the consultant - current studies show that the more support they give you, the better your chances are so they should do everything they can for you.

I rang the hospital this morning and they've told me I don't have the blood clotting issue, so onto the next stage of tests. But I still sneakily believe I might be pregnant.. Am I lining myself up for a fall?

Still need that slap in the face methinks!

mermaidspurse · 09/01/2009 11:18

curlywurlee thats good, re the test, one crossed off the list then. I am still not going to slap you one though. But you can jump on some of my sandcastles if you like it often helps!

barbie1 · 09/01/2009 13:22

mm Happy birthday to you...happy birthday to you

Ill stop singing now as my singing voice isnt very good!

Hello everyone, i like all your good news, non to add myself...yet but i love coming on here at the moment, we have come so far since the first thread!

ill be back soon, more packing to do

Good luck for later vm i have everything crossed for you x

Curlywurlee · 09/01/2009 13:29

I'm not pregnant. AF has arrived I've done a test as well just in case. The single pink line looked decidedly lonely by itself. I guess it was a longshot anyway.

scamperT · 09/01/2009 14:17

ah curly, sorry to hear that hon. I got sick of seeing that single line too. You will be getting a double line soon though I am sure. Look after yourself this weekend, after all your activity last weekend ireckon you deserve a nice glass of wine, a long ly in and abig slice of cake xxx

barbie1 · 09/01/2009 16:06

ah curlywurlee, i did a few test over the christmas too....even though deep down i knew it wasnt going to be a positive my heart still sank a little, damn the single line!
I had a momnet a little while ago, 5 mins of not painting and i thought to myself, that im too busy believing that a baby will make me happy that im not focusing on the many things that actually are making me happy now, in real life. I dont want life to pass me by........

mm1509 · 09/01/2009 16:28

barbie that's the perfect way to get through this, what is it they say about when you are not looking. Got your text hun, thanks it cheered me up, your one in a million and I am so glad we met.

Had some sad family news, don't want to post the details right now but it has kind of knocked me for six so my thoughts are elsewhere atm. Looking forward to tomorrow, lots planned so thankfully no time to dwell. Thanks for the birthday messages they do mean so much.

vm and vjay thinking about you both, good luck tomorrow vm will be having a quick lurk when I get the chance to see how you got on.

Take care everyone mm xxx

barbie1 · 09/01/2009 16:44

mm hope everything is ok sweetie? Im glad we met too, you were the first thing i thought about when i woke up and if i could of found my bloody phone in the mess that i call home then i would of texted you much sooner. Happy birthday, i hope your sad news doesnt distract you from enjoying yourself xxx

mm1509 · 09/01/2009 16:46

barbie you are going to make me cry..........again. Will make sure I have a good time tomorrow, promise.

Curlywurlee · 09/01/2009 17:41

Thanks Scamper and Barbie. I'll be fine and I'm going to concentrate on having fun in Jan. At least I won't have a guilt trip going out tonight. But I think that my plan to take a couple of months off TTC is out the window

I love that we've had so many BFPs though. This is one great cave we've built, and the rest of us will be there soon hopefully.

Happy Birthday MM. Hope you are okay xxx

Best of luck tomorrow VM, I hope you have the most wonderful experience this time though I know it must be so hard waiting and not knowing what is ahead. I wish we could all go with you and hold your hand but we'll be waiting right here when you get back.

barbie1 · 10/01/2009 12:52

logged on quickly to see how vm got on??
The removal guys are here and my life it getting packed up into hundreds of boxes

Happy birthday again for today mm!

How are all the lovely pregnant ladies doing???

My happy time yesterday was sitting in a bath with a hair mask and face mask on, where would i get the time if i had a baby You see, its only positives from me!!!

scamperT · 10/01/2009 13:51

barbie am loving your positive vibes! It makes me smile and relax a bit, you are so right, life has many other fab experiences to offer. Glad to hear you finding some time to relax. Before you know it there'll be 2 lines on that test so stay positive in other ways in the mean time

curly you stay positive too babe and that's an order! Enjoy yourself this weekend and use it as an excuse to treat yourself to your favourite things including a nice big glass of something naughty

VM am thinking of you and praying it's the good news you deserve

MM sorry to hear you have had bad news, hope you still enjoy your cake and candles though and that the birthday fairy grants your wishes

blue still thinking of you hon. Hope you have been building snow men with your DD and not feeling too sad, although of course you will need time to grieve, hope you can enjoy time with your DD and DH then look forward to a 'productive' family holiday xx

Scamper is on a train going through a winter wonderland that looks like the pictures you get in kids books, and gasping at how pretty the world is today

Love to all xxx

mm1509 · 10/01/2009 14:20

Just on quickly to see if there was any news from vm.

barbie it's all happening now hun, I'm excited for you. Hope you have some nice plans for tomorrow and keep those positives coming.

scamper your train journey sounds wonderful.

Will have a lurk later to see if there is any news from vm, should have time to catch up properly tomorrow with all you lovely ladies.

Take care mm xxx

VJay · 10/01/2009 14:50

Hello ladies, I had a scan yesterday and everything is fine and the spotting has stopped phew!
vm how did your scan go today, I've been thinking of you.
barbie good luck with the move xx
mm happy birthday, enjoy your cake.
Waves to everyone xxx

barbie1 · 10/01/2009 15:04

yipeeeee well done vjay, how far on are you now?
We need to start a list of who is pregnant etc, i cant keep up!

Molliemooma · 10/01/2009 16:21

MM Thinking of you, hope you are OK?
VJay So glad the scan went well
Barbie Not long now, still loving your positive attitude

Hi to everyone else

VJay · 10/01/2009 16:23

I'm 7 weeks, still very early days, but I'm going to pinch some of your positive vibes barbie

barbie1 · 10/01/2009 16:31

vjay feel free, im even shocked myself at how positive i am!
The removal men have gone to the pub to watch the football so im sat relaxing, its strange watching your life being packed into boxes DH have offered the removal guys to stay this evening, they usually sleep in the lorry but its so cold we couldnt do that to them....could we?
I havent any plans for my birthday tomorrow, james and i have decided we will celebrate over in dubai, im not too bothered although i did find my card from last year and dh wrote
Happy birthday princess, just think this time next year we will be married with a baby on the way!
Still i didnt cry, i remained positive and though next year i will be!
vm i hope your absence is due to you celebrating with your family?
mollie hi hunny, i missed you..your other thread seems full of good news too, i like it! Is kate pregnant? i hope so as i have been following all your tales on that board too!!!

VillageMum · 10/01/2009 17:17

mm HAPPY BIRTHDAY for yesterday (and today!) and barbie for tomorrow!

Thanks for all your kind words prior to the scan, ladies, they mean SO much to me. I'm relieved to be able to say that it went well - we saw the heartbeat, steady and regular, and all looks normal. There was an unintentionally hilarious or awful (depending on how you look at it!) interlude before we got to see bean, though - I'd just stripped off for the internal scan and was lying on the table draped in a sheet when the multi-thousand pound scanner decided to pack up. So dh, consultant and I went down the corridor in search of another one - picture me hobbling along in my socks with the sheet, which wasn't the widest, wrapped around my naked nether regions...

We've decided to go back in a fortnight for another scan to check that bean is growing normally, but for now I'm mightily reassured! x

VJay · 10/01/2009 17:20

Oh vm I am so pleased for you .
Happy birthday tomorrow barbie xx

Curlywurlee · 10/01/2009 17:42

VM and VJ - I'm so glad your scans have gone well.

I think Barbie's right about the list - tis gettting hard to keep up

mm1509 · 10/01/2009 17:45

Very, very quickly but fantastic news vm and vjay now I can really enjoy my birthday............raising a glass of red to you both.

Will speak to all you lovely ladies tomorrow...........oh I'm so happy for you.

mermaidspurse · 10/01/2009 17:50

huge big congratulations to vjay and vm
So pleased for you both.
barbie any extra room in those boxes?
Have a great weekend

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