Doremifasol I am sorry for your losses. I think most of the bases have been covered for accessing counselling, but do speak to your GP. I believe a few areas prioritise miscarriage-related referrals on the priority route (but I have no idea which areas, I am afraid).
Flopsy88 I didn’t go through a natural miscarriage, so it might explain the difference, but I haven’t had another scan booked. I was just told to take a HPT three weeks after after surgery. As I say, this may be irrelevant, but maybe it’s just the policy in some trusts? If you can’t get through to the EPU could you maybe call your GP and ask?
kiwi17 I know exactly what you mean about EDD etc. One of ours was born at an unpopular time of year to have a baby, and I remember having that discussion almost immediately after we found out we were expecting him. This time, we equally celebrated the excitement of a September due date. Looking back now, I am horrified that I was a bit disappointed by such a thing, but it very much came from the position of privilege and belief having a baby would be straightforward. Nowadays, I just want a baby.
I am getting optimistic that I may be coming to coming to the end of bleeding. Sorry if TMI, but there is now just a tinge just like at the very tail end of my period, so hopefully that will clear up soon. I did a HPT yesterday (only 12 days post-surgery, and 17 day after passing the sac) and that is now negative too, so it feels a bit like the end of the physical journey is finally insight.