@Doughnut100 rage is good, we would be weird after everything we have gone through if we weren't angry about it. Feel the same everyone being pregnant and babies everywhere.
Does anyone know how to turn off the baby / pregnancy ads on Facebook? Pretty sure it was mentioned early on for this thread or another one I was posting on, but think I'll be hard pushed to find it as lots on here now, but they're there every time I go on
Facebook and would rather they weren't!
@WildflowerPetals glad the tablets worked for you, and hopefully all is over now, though that sounds v traumatic with all the blood and things getting stuck. It's crazy how something so small can cause such an issue, I saw it after surgery, as didn't know what to do when asked, so thought it was better to see and wish I hadn't afterwards rather than not look and wish I had. It was literally smaller than my little finger.
@SkyBlue20 not long now until tomorrow. Hopefully the local anaesthetic will work good, you will prob still feel pressure and moment, but not the pain, though it's hard to tell at first which is which. I'm sure if you start freaking out they will give you something like they did me to calm u down.
@CAnary0 hope you have some nice goodies to cheer you up, and you are not on antibiotics like me so can have a nice drink. Can't wait for Saturday so I can have a few and finally crack open the red velvet Baileys my husband bought for me for valentines before we found out.
@Sakura54 how old is your son? How is he coping with it, if he knows?
@Mlou32 I'm 38 too, and don't know what to do. It's funny how time changes things, as less than a week ago I was adamant that I was NEVER doing this ever again, I dont know now what to do. I just wish that someone would tell me your time is up, don't cause more pain by pushing for something that won't happen, or keep going, persevere, you will get there. Of course no-one can tell me this, and even if they did, I prob wouldn't listen. It's just so hard as I live for a plan and a bit of organisation, love my holidays, and I've already had to make plans at relatively short notice, and make sure they would still work if I did fall pregnant, and it's just such an arse when friends want to make plans like big nights out, spa days etc, and you don't know whether you'll have to cancel altogether, tell people before you are ready, or blatantly lie to them. For eg, I had a spa day and cocktails booked with my friend less than 2 weeks before I found out, and had to tell her before I was quite ready to, as couldn't stick the lying of - oh no, I won't go in the steam / sauna / jacuzzi as I don't feel like it / have a headache etc, when I'm usually first in there, and oh no, I don't feel like drinking / have a headache etc when she knows I'm like a fish and make the most of an opportunity for a good drink child-free!
How long is everyone thinking of having off work? My sick note from Friday ends tomorrow, and I already had 3 days self-certify before that the day I found out and in hospital the next 2 days, but I'm sure I'm not ready to go back Monday. Think I'll get another week, but even then I don't think I want my camera switched on for meetings. Still don't want to see anyone.