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on your behalf that everything is taking so long and no one has spoken to you about anything. I hope something happens and they can get you in sooner.
flen and march thinking of you and hoping the spotting/bleeding goes, horrible time of waiting and seeing. 
mrsb glad the op was ok and you are back home with DH looking after you. I think it's the right decision to stay away from work this week and then have your time away next week, you need to take some time to yourself and process everything. I hope work are supportive.
barking hope the meeting about your Dad's care goes ok today and they work out a way to get him home. I hope that maybe the thought of DH going away is almost worse that when it actually comes round. That sounds silly but once he's gone, each day is closer to him coming back and you can get on and take each day at a time, anticipation of something like that is always horrible. Hugs
thorn and bootles good luck today and bootles yey for resigning, good luck!