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Recurrent Miscarriage Support Thread 27 - Tests, Treatments and Trying Again

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BumbleBee0 · 03/07/2015 07:26

Tea, hugs, a wealth of collective knowledge and lots of hand holding as we try again. This thread moves like lightning so hold on to your hats!
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girliesaints · 14/07/2015 07:46

Good luck Bootles and Thorn for your scans today .

March & Flen, still thinking of you and hoping for a quiet day for you both

mrsdiddlydoo · 14/07/2015 07:54

march I'm glad the spotting has eased and am sending loads of energy to you willing things to progress. Take it as easy as you can

flen my heart sank reading your posts yesterday. Hope things have not got worse and as ladies have suggested it an explainable bleed. I can't spell haema.... Are you just planning to wait for your next scan (tomo i think) or heading to a walk in epu today?

mrsb I'm glad everyone has been taking care of you on here and your dh is being a star. Feet up, lots of chocolate and DVDs today for you please X

Hugs to everyone struggling and stuck in dark times.

And bootles... Congratulations on handing your notice in! Big step! Well done. Will be waiting for your 12 week news today. Hope it goes well.

mrsdiddlydoo · 14/07/2015 07:55

And thorn good luck today too. Hope things have stayed settled x

OneStep2015 · 14/07/2015 07:55

bootles best of luck for your scan today and your new business ventures. Xxx

Flen · 14/07/2015 08:06

Good luck for your scans today bootles and thorn

March glad the spotting has buggered off for the time being.

No heavy bleeds over night, just that bit before bed. This morning am wiping old looking blood. Still got dull ache back and front with occasional more specific cramps.

Think I am going to have to hang on til tomorrow, we are in Brighton so could conceivably make it to London but I am not sure I can face it. We've made enquiries into private scans but they won't do it until 7 weeks round here. Just got to hang on.

bootles · 14/07/2015 08:11

Oh flen the waiting is just torturous I know, and I totally understand the feeling of not being able to face it. No more fresh blood is something to hang onto xx

march no more spotting is good, and you already know that at this stage no change in the line over 2 days can be quite normal xx

Thanks all for good wishes on both fronts x

BumbleBee0 · 14/07/2015 08:29

march I found the ic lines took ages to darken. At 6 wks mine still wasn't as dark as the ctrl line so gave up with them. If you google them you'll see most people find they just take ages to darken so try not to worry.

Glad the bleeding seems to have stopped flen. Hoping it stays that way and your scan tomorrow is positive. X

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Marchgirl · 14/07/2015 08:46

Hunger sounds like a pg symptom to me sasha! Fingers and toes crossed.

Thanks bumble. I just thought it would be a bit darker by now on the ic. I've never liked the hpt ics (though the opks are good) but that's not been helped by two very weak pgs that never turned one blue. Already feeling too invested in this pg and like I'm in for a big fall.

OneStep2015 · 14/07/2015 08:53

Sasha yes I could not stop eating on Progesterone last month!!

Frecklefire · 14/07/2015 09:25

Cyclogest = WINDY CITY!!!! Wow, but then progedyerone is supposed to sloe everything down, so it starts to forment. I've never been so bad! (tmi, sorry.)

March, i think those linrs mean nothing. My last pg (jan-feb) i pos every 2-3 days. By the time my period was late it was really dark and stayed really dark for every pos right up until i actually had lost it. The colour means nothing. The clear blue ones which show 3 weeks, 4 weeks, 5+ weeks might offer better consolation, but they are just too expensive to be using every three days!

Frecklefire · 14/07/2015 09:34

Usual mess of typos...grrr sorry folks!

Justonemoretime · 14/07/2015 09:44

Oops, fell off the thread! Will catch up later. Wanted to wish those with scans today well. X

bythesea82 · 14/07/2015 09:59

Spam Angry on your behalf that everything is taking so long and no one has spoken to you about anything. I hope something happens and they can get you in sooner.

flen and march thinking of you and hoping the spotting/bleeding goes, horrible time of waiting and seeing. Flowers

mrsb glad the op was ok and you are back home with DH looking after you. I think it's the right decision to stay away from work this week and then have your time away next week, you need to take some time to yourself and process everything. I hope work are supportive.

barking hope the meeting about your Dad's care goes ok today and they work out a way to get him home. I hope that maybe the thought of DH going away is almost worse that when it actually comes round. That sounds silly but once he's gone, each day is closer to him coming back and you can get on and take each day at a time, anticipation of something like that is always horrible. Hugs

thorn and bootles good luck today and bootles yey for resigning, good luck!

bootles · 14/07/2015 11:34

sasha hoping your lining is thickening nicely

bythesea I meant to say - 28 weeks wow!

barking hoping there is some resolution soon in regards to getting your dad home.

I am somewhat in shock - scan went well. Harmony results back as low risk for the three main trisomies, nuchal 1.3, everything checked that can be checked at this stage and all looking good. I went alone and cried all over the dr when I went in, blurting out all that was wrong on my previous 12 wk scan. She was kind. I nearly hugged her at the end.

MrsConfusion · 14/07/2015 11:44

Wonderful news bootles, so happy for you! And we'll done on resigning too, what an exciting new chapter Smile

Spamminit · 14/07/2015 11:52

So glad your scan went well bootles so so pleased for you x

mrsdiddlydoo · 14/07/2015 12:00

bootles Grin made up for you. Big milestone! Onwards and upwards x

Catlover2014 · 14/07/2015 12:03

So happy for you Bootles. This is a huge milestone and I feel sure you're going to hold this little one in your arms around six months from now Smile xxx

Justonemoretime · 14/07/2015 12:08

Bootles, Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin

sebsmummy1 · 14/07/2015 12:13

OMG bootles that is the 12 week scan of my dreams, how wonderful!!

bythesea82 · 14/07/2015 12:17

bootles Grin

Marchgirl · 14/07/2015 12:17

Incredible news bootles! Absolutely delighted for you. And great that the harmony results are low risk as well. Did you find of the sex? Hope it has given you some peace of mind for a while at least. Next stop 20 week scan!

Brummiegirl15 · 14/07/2015 12:23

Bootles I am so so happy for you!!! I am praying I have a similar result next Monday

Thorne good luck to you too

March and Flen thinking of you both xx

Loopy. re the Clexane, I found a lots of pharmacies didn't stock it so had to be ordered. But both Worcester and the Alex pharmacies do stock it.

Only thing is , they don't accept the green GP prescription only the pink hospital ones (which can't be filled in a normal pharmacy FFS) so you may have to stand your ground and say the prescription has come on order from Mr Watts. That seemed to do the trick for me.

Good luck!!

Re meet up Saturday 25th - can I just check is 1pm ish ok for Just Onestep Thorne and Sun?

Just let me know and I will book today and pm you all