Recurrent Miscarriage Support Thread 26 - tests, treatment and trying again

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Tea, hugs, a wealth of collective knowledge and lots of hand holding as we try again. This thread moves like lightning so hold on to your hats!
Previous thread here

Whispered congrats mrsC

Thinking of you minnie. Hope it went ok this morning

Currently awaiting a call from Gynae at JR with bloods results, they've normally called by now, so will give it another 15mins and call them.

Still have the rectal pain. Literally a right pain in the arse!!!!!!
Oh and sore breasts they are really sore!! But guess at least I'm not bleeding or in excruciating pain ...yet. This sucks, big time.

Glad it was reassuring Minnie. Sorry about the bfns.

Congratulations mrsc!

Oh minnie, glad it was ok. Well done for what must have been very scary.

mrsc yay! Double thumbs up!

I am 6dpo. Was planning to test this coming weekend, but now have my in-laws coming to stay from Thursday... So that means options are test at 10dpo or wait til AF, can't quite cope with the thought of testing (and all the ensuing emotional gubbins) while my in-laws are in the house. GRR.

Well done for getting through it Minnie.

Hope you get the call soon onestep

Fingers crossed for everyone in the 2ww

Oh Minnie I'm so glad everything was ok.

MrsC whispered congrats.

Cat me and DP drove through Womborne this morning on way to Wolves - I waved to you and Louis!!!

Hope you are doing ok and your DH enjoyed his first fathers Days

Thinking of everyone else's DP/DHs today x

Congratulations mrsc

minnie glad your scan was reassuring

onestep hope you have your results now, it's awful waiting for the phone to ring.

Minnie - glad scan was reasuring and sorry it brought back bad memories x

Onestep** hope you've heard back by now and that you are ok, sorry about pain in arse. Mother nature needs a f.good kicking!!! X

Getting a bit cross and impatient. Spoke to a nurse who explained that I would need one of the doctors to speak to me about the results and plan for going forward.

No one available it seems right now. Have had darker discharge this morning.

Just been told that there have been a number of emergencies in the labour ward today and there has been no time to go through my results but somebody will call me before 8pm.

I HATE miscarriage soooooo much. I've had to right off so many months of my life with all this I could just scream at everybody today. Don't get me wrong I an thankful to be able to actually get pregnant in the first place, but I'm just not able to keep the little suckers!!!!!! Aarrrgghhhhhg

Onestep what you're going throughsounds like pure torture. Have you tried hounding them and tears? Sometimes it is the only way to be listened to. Handhold and hugs.xxxx

Hubby just asked if I wanted to go out for a quick walk round the lake that we live by. It's a beautiful afternoon, but I just don't feel I know what to do with myself right now. I don't want to piss them off in Gynae, I've called 3 times today, I'm gonna need them over the next couple of weeks and don't want to be known as one of them trouble maker types. But right now I'm ready to scream at anyone who comes near me. Fathers Day is not helping, Facebook is a no go zone right now...

Quick walk sounds like a good plan for some fresh air and change of scene onestep. If you stand it...

*can stand it...

So glad to hear your sonographer sounded positive minnie.

Congratulations mrsC

It sounds so frustrating onestep. I hope you hear from them soon. If you have any pain in your abdomen or shoulder though I would go straight to hospital just to be sure. I also wouldn't be too concerned about badgering them as I'm sure they Will understand how hard it is for you waiting and that they'd do the same.

DH just popped round to the shop as I just needed some ready salted Pringles, bumped in to friends round the corner who have just driven back from Scotland after their mothers funeral. So much doom and gloom, can't cope with it.

Pulling my hair out now and for some reason it's been falling out more than usual over the last two weeks, I'll have none left soon!!!!!

onestep huge hugs lovely. Life is being too cruel. Getting out for a walk sounds good if you can? JR were especially slow getting results to me on Sunday, sounds like same situation that they wanted a senior opinion and as only one consultant was covering, it took ages. But it's best that they've got someone looking properly at your case. My hcg was around 500 and confused them for a bit. Wish I could come down and give you a hug!

Thinking of everyone today esp where Father's Day is so hard.

Hugs onestep. Don't feel bad about badgering epu - this is a suspected ectopic and you need to know. I think they will understand that, and I doubt they would see you as a trouble maker. Just think about getting through today,and if a meltdown will help, have one.

minnie glad today went well

mrsc that's great news!

chrystley welcome and sorry for your losses. Just wanted to add to what others have said, that I am also 41 and have a ds born in 2011. I have had 5 losses (4 mc's and 1 tfmr). When to stop is hard to know, and although at our age there will be more duff eggs, I had 4 of mine tested, and only 1 was chromosomally abnormal. 1 we didn't get results for and 2 were chromosomally normal. I'm convinced it's more than just duff eggs. I would say don't be fobbed of by the age thing. I'm currently 8+4 wks pg, and waiting to see how this one does. Willing it on.

flen argh when to test nightmare! Feel for you.

march sorry for the crap afternoon x

Onestep, hope you get a call back soon x

Willing you on here too bootles. Xxxx

flen that's so tricky. I usually try to hold on long as possible but this month couldn't fade testing on a work morning when we'd be rushing. As it turned out I was awake most of the night so tested 5am... Hugs

minnie really glad sonographer was understanding, and reassuring.

chrys welcome. So sorry you're facing these hard questions. Lots of ladies here are pompom wavers for Coventry.

So lovely to hear of RL meet ups from this group

Thanks so much for your support, it's helping me enormously to get through this.

Betting I get a call at the end of shift at 8pm tonight!!!!!!!

minnie glad that you had some positive news today

onestep so sorry you've had such a long wait today, how frustrating. I do hope you've had some news by now particularly as you've had this uncertainty all week. If you ever need a sympathetic ear and fancy a coffee I am, quite literally, just around the corner!

mrsc lovely news! Hope this is a sticky one.