Recurrent Miscarriage Support Thread 26 - tests, treatment and trying again

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Tea, hugs, a wealth of collective knowledge and lots of hand holding as we try again. This thread moves like lightning so hold on to your hats!
Previous thread here

March, hope dh didn't snore, normally my dh's trick after a pub visit!

Wishing my dh was getting a Father's Day present today.

So girls wasn't going to post this but I could do with some handholding and positive thoughts. Found a lump in my boob and saw my doctor on Friday. Going for a scan this morning. Have had cysts in the past but scans on Sunday mornings have been shit news for me this year and I am absolutely totally crapping myself. With my rmc head on all I can see is bad news but trying to be vaguely positive.

minnie big hand hold! Hope the scan is reassuring.

chrystey Coventry Implatation Clinic clicky link

Minnie, hand holding to you. IME, breast services with the NHS are excellent, hopefully they will be for you and you'll be reassured quickly.

Sending positive thoughts your way Minnie. Hope you get good news today.

Minnie big big hugs. Hoping it's nothing untoward for you.

I really don't mind talking about my MC ...In fact I wish I could more openly but some people don't know what to say. The only place my MC don't get mentioned is work .... that's because no one knows.
It is very hard being around people that have 2 ... but equally it's lovely seeing friends happy x

Minnie ... worrying but at lead you're being helped by amazing people. Hope all goes well.

Hand holding minnie. Glad they are seeing you so quickly. Let us know how you get on x

minnie hugs and hand holding. We're thinking of you.

Had a night of vomiting DD and DH - nothing says happy Father's Day like a torrent of vomit at 12.15.

But, then poas frer at 13dpo. Bfp. Oh my word. Trying to ignore it until these two are better, then need to phone RMC on mon for early scan due to risk of repeat ectopic. Still only on cd24 which is crazy but I had short AF and ovulated straight after.....

Mrsconfusion, whispered congratulations. I hear you on the vomiting front; Scott and the cat in my case. We all need a good wipe down...

Wow MrsC congrats. Get yourself in to the clinic pronto. X

girlie the lazy spa sounds spot on!

Minnie hugs and hand holding sweetie.

MrsC whispering congratulations to you. Great news!

Hot tub. Mmm. I spent lots of last weekend in one at my friends house. Was a lovely treat!

Hope everything's ok Minnie

Whispers congrats MrsC & hope the vomiting goes away in your household

Big hugs to those DH or DP who are wishing they were celebrating Fathers Day. Hopefully your day will come soon x

Minnie - i am thinking of you this morning...

Mrs confusion, woohoo! Lets hope this is it for you!!!

And on the vom front, i feel like me and ds may be coming down with something. Will serve dh right if we're vomming up as he is totally milking fathers day and is still in bed after having breakfast brought to him! No doubt he will continue to totally milk it all day!

Even facebook's making me feel sick this morning with all the pics. Really makes me want to put a comment for all the men who dearly want to be daddies, thinking of them today...

mrsC congratulations!! hope DD and dh improve soon and you avoid it. Fingers crossed this is it x

Well jealous about the hot tub girlie but much deserved. what a great idea as a thank you.

Congrats, MrsC. A nice prompt implantation is definitely a good sign.

Here for hand holding, Minnie.

No BFP for me. I've got my period instead, and a medium sized girl's birthday party to deal with. Makes me wonder what all that interesting cramping I was doing on Wednesday was about. I don't think sex was well timed to catch the egg this month, so it's kind of strange to have "contractions " on what would have been (working backwards) 6 or 7 dpo. No pain now, of course. I am just super weird.

Fabulous news MrsC, delighted for you

Minnie im so sorry you have this extra worry on top of everything else, holding your hand for today xx

NotSpartacus i can remember that i used to have cramps halfway through my 2WW and i used to convince myself it was implantation, it wasn't though but i never did figure out why it was happening. Sorry AF arrived

onestep how are you doing today?

Congratulations Mrs C. Here's lots of finger crossing for you! :)

Hope today gives you some reassurance Minnie. Will be thinking of you and cyber hand holding.

How are you feeling Tanny? Any better?

I poas this morning and got my smiley! So it's action stations! Decided to try to follow the SMEP this cycle - although I've not told DH this! So fingers crossed. Just in a dilemma whether to dtd once a day or try for twice a day now we've got our smiley..any opinions?

Anyhow's... must crack on. Gcse science exam marking. 4 papers left! I'll be doing a little dance in approximately 15 minutes!

Thinking of you minnie. Random lumps can happen for all sorts of benign reasons but of course you can't help but worry.

sebs your scan sounds positive to me. Sorry the sonographer worried you. I have come across a disproportionate number of grumpy sonographers. I figure it must be quite a stressful job.

one step hugs to you brave lady. Xxxxxx

cat good to hear from you. I second getting the tongue tie looked at. They are common but seemingly difficult to diagnose and the severity of the tie doesn't always correlate with how much it interferes with feeding.

Sorry to everyone I have missed out. Really struggling to keep up but thinking of you all and your dps, especially today.

Thanks so much everyone. Sonographer is sure the lump I went with is. They did spot something else on the mammogram but the sobographer thinks it was the bottom of the cyst. She said don't worry so I'm not going to. Go back in a couple of weeks. Got slightly emotional in the scan room as the cyst looked a bit like a pregnancy shape with it being clear. I explained Sunday scans had bad outcomes recently. She was very understanding thank god!

mrsC congratulations!!!

spartacus I had the same cramping mid tww this time too. Really convinced myself it was implantation- stupidly with two bfns. We must be really similar in cycle days. I'm cd2 today. Fingers crossed for this cycle. X