Recurrent Miscarriage Support Thread 23 - tests, treatment, trying again.

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Buckle up, the threads move like lightening! Tea, sympathy, information, support and combined wisdom to guide you through the maze of testing and treatment for recurrent miscarriage. Newbies always most welcome.

Please start with the traditional recap of your stats.

Shit Bubbly I'm so so sorry. That is so shit xxx we are here for you during the next steps.

Girlie hmm hope that means no bad news for you. Fingers crossed xx

Oh bubbly so sorry. There are no words for the total shit and unfairness of it all. X

girlie glad your scan gave a little more hope. Hoping the week passes quickly got you x

bubbly So so sorry. Life is so cruel. What do you think you are going to do, surgical, medical, natural management? Do you have someone to look after you?

girlie Wow, it's all still up in the air for you!! Fingers crossed. (but rubbish that you now have yet another week of waiting to get through).

I'm was spotting again this morning And now have lower back ache. Sunday can't come soon enough.

I'm so sorry Bubbly it's not fair that you're having to go through this again. Thinking of you xxx

Girlie sorry your scan was inconclusive but it means there is still hope and I will have my fingers crossed for you. xxx

Cloud sorry you're spotting again. I hope it settles down soon and pisses off. Hope the days pass quickly for you until Sunday.

Oh Cloud, shall I get as a time machine to fast forward for a few days for us? Hope it settles down soon

Cloud big hugs.

Standing waiting for a meeting at Solihull hospital - I must have a beacon. Suddenly loads of women suddenly appear carrying green maternity notes!!

Bugger off all of you!!! I can't help it, I just feel sick with envy when I see them...

So sorry to hear that you had bad scan news bubbles. It's heartbreaking and so desperately unfair. Wish I could reach out and hug you, we all do. Have they said what the next steps will be?

Girlie am sorry you have more waiting but will stay hopeful for you. Does it mean there could possibly be twins onboard?

Cloud hope your spotting stops soon and the time doesn't drag too much. Every day can feel like an eternity when you're waiting to know.

March I had pink spotting before my BFP so it could be implantation! Keep us updated. Hope the treatment isn't messing your body around too much.

Tanny I think boozle is 4 July, so she's not got long to go either!

Sorry to hear you're spotting again cloud. hope time passes quickly until Sunday. Big hugs xxx

Yes it does Cat ?? not going there at the moment until I know what's going to happen

Gosh girlie - how frustrating that it was inconclusive. Really hoping the week passes quickly for you. X

Oh bubbles...i am so so sorry. It doesnt matter how much you perpare yiurself for bad news, it still hurts like hell. Sending you my support xxx

So girlie...any twins running in your family?! Sorry it's not more conclusive but hoping the fat lady hasn't sung yet...

bubbles I am so sorry to hear this. Sending lots of hugs your way

girlie frustrating that it's another week of waiting but I'll keep everything crossed!

cloud sorry you've had more spotting. What a horrible wait you're having

bubbles I'm so sorry. Even if you were pessimistic about it losing that last bit of hope hurts like hell.

I'm continuing to cross fingers for girlie and cloud

Bubbles, so sorry to hear your news. I hope you're getting the support you need in RL.
Girlie, sorry your scan was inconclusive. fx it is good news next week.
Cloud, sorry to hear the spotting is back. Hope it stops soon. x

Thanks for your comments. I've had a little chat with my tummy this afternoon and asked that either the egg sacks hurry up and grow, or if they've decided that's it, that's ok but can they not decide to grow a bit and then stop, so I'm in limbo for another week.

thank you ladies i have decided for surgical option. i am booked for tuesday. they also said to me they will test the tissue and I'm being referred to the recurrent miscarriage clinic.

i am focusing on recovery now and then go on holiday hopefully by the time i get back the clinic would have been in touch and then lets see what the outcome of the results are. if nothing conclusive then perhaps i will try the coventry I'm not too sure i will ask you lovelies for advice when the time comes at the moment it is too much to think about.

Bubbly for you, life really is shit sometimes. Sending big hugs and my support x

Girlie (I hope your chat works!) and Cloud you are in my thoughts and am keeping everything crossed x

Just take it one day at a time bubbles. It's a positive that you have the holiday to look fwd to and that it will give you some time out. Glad you don't have too long to wait to go into hospital, I found the surgical management to be the least painful way. In the meantime be sure to rest up, drink wine and eat chocolate. Hugs xxxx

yes cocktails and a good night out

Bubbly, surgical would be my preferred option. Enjoy the chocolate and wine x

bubbly - not sure if you've had surgical before? If not, just to say it is definitely my preferred option if it doesn't happen naturally. It's pretty quick and pain free - maybe a couple of paracetamol required that evening and that was it for me. Big hugs x

i haven't had a surgical before first time :S i am a bit nervous. but i feel like the recovery is quicker. and everyone does say it their preferred method :)

cloud - sorry to hear that the spotting is back and hoping that Sunday comes around bloomin quickly for you. X

I'm so, so sorry bubbles .
I'm glad you've got that holiday booked.

girlie that's so frustrating but I'm keeping my fingers crossed.

Just had my smear test. After all the internal fiddlings I've had in the three years since my last one it seemed like absolutely nothing! She asked me if I was using any contraception. I said if I was that might explain over three years of ttc and no baby .

bubbly - yes I found the physical recovery to be pretty quick. The anaesthetic can make you a bit tired, but I was out shopping the day after the last one. You just have to be prepared to take it a bit easy for a couple of days after if you need to. x