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Recurrent Miscarriage Support Thread 23 - tests, treatment, trying again.

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bythesea82 · 11/05/2015 16:28

Buckle up, the threads move like lightening! Tea, sympathy, information, support and combined wisdom to guide you through the maze of testing and treatment for recurrent miscarriage. Newbies always most welcome.

Please start with the traditional recap of your stats.

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Marchgirl · 13/05/2015 09:25

I'm 9dpo flower. Might do a sneaky frer tomorrow but absolutely no sore boobs at all and not hungry or tired, so don't hold out much hope. Tiny thread of pink yesterday and the day before but that's it.

Floweroct · 13/05/2015 09:30

Ah that's still quite early isn't it march you're not out yet!

brummie in theory not until next Friday but more likely Wednesday!

longestlurkerever · 13/05/2015 09:55

My due date is 30 may cat and brummie so I should be next. Am loving maternity leave I must say though it starts in earnest tomorrow when dd goes to nursery!

Catlover2014 · 13/05/2015 10:06

I'm so forgetful!!! Wow longest that's sooooo soon. Are you hoping for an early arrival or would you like some time at home 1st?

March 9dpo is very early to test but I have done the same myself lol. I usually don't get anything positive until about 11/12dpo.

Hope the new arrivals for just and purple are doing well. X

Brummiegirl15 · 13/05/2015 10:37

Blimey longest not long to go at all!!!

Flower and March the only symptoms I've got is exhaustion. I'm so tired - but that's it. After all 1 day of sunshine does not make a summer

tannyLoo · 13/05/2015 10:45

What about boozle? I can't remember when she's due...

tannyLoo · 13/05/2015 10:47

Longest, so excited for you being next!

TinyTear · 13/05/2015 10:55

yes, I had a Succenturiate lobe in my placenta but they said as my cord was attached to the main bit it didn't cause problems.

Apparently it can cause an issue if the cord is in the thin or smaller bit.

Do you know where your cords were Just and purple?

TinyTear · 13/05/2015 10:56

And longest can't wait for you to have yours and we can meet in the Heath with our babies Grin

Marchgirl · 13/05/2015 10:58

How's little bertie doing tanny? Hope his cough has gone and that things are a little easier at home x

I'm only testing this early because of the response trial cat, but don't expect anything til 11 or 12, but last pg i had symptoms and knew in my head by about now. Just not feeling it!

CheesyMash · 13/05/2015 10:58

9dpo is very early march and the pink could be sign of implantation so presume it would be another 2-3 days to show on hpt??

I'm so bad for symptom spotting! I had (sorry tmi) snot like cm this morning so clearly that is a sign (had it with other pregnancies). Half of me is thinking ooooh this could meaning something and the other half of like, ffs she's off again! Ha! I had bad crankiness yesterday so did an opk and the 2nd line was quite dark (although not pos) and got same today which I wasn't expecting. Don't know why I'm posting this because it means nothing!

CheesyMash · 13/05/2015 10:59

*crampiness not crankiness (although that's probably true too)

Marchgirl · 13/05/2015 11:21

Perhaps it's a sign that you ov later than you thought cheesy, which has to be a good thing given your stress about timing. Keeping it all crossed for you Grin

Justonemoretime · 13/05/2015 11:25

Tiny, thanks. Not sure where the cord was. On the main bit, I think. But one of the outlying bits was bleeding and coming away, hence the early emergency c-section. The surgeon said it was unusual, and yet a few of us, who have also been treated for RMC, have something similar. I think there's a link...

TinyTear · 13/05/2015 11:29

Yes, interesting Just.
Did they not see it in the scans?

At my 20 week scan the sonographer even called a student to look as it is so uncommon...

Purple, I can't remember, were you also Coventry protocol?

Justonemoretime · 13/05/2015 11:39

No, nothing on the scans. He just found it like that during the c-section. Maybe my nodules were smaller...? Hmm

Bubblybubbles80 · 13/05/2015 11:50

Bad news another loss ??

Marchgirl · 13/05/2015 11:56

Oh bubbly. I'm so so sorry to hear that. Life is shit. Just shit and unfair. Flowers

Bubblybubbles80 · 13/05/2015 11:58

Thanks it's shit

Jady77 · 13/05/2015 11:59

Oh no Bubbly, I'm so sorry. Am lost for words. Had so hoped for a positive outcome for you today. I hope you have plenty of support in rl too. Big hugs xFlowers

Sunandrainbow · 13/05/2015 11:59

Really really sorry bubbly. Are they definite about it without seeing you again? Big hugs to you. x

girliesaints · 13/05/2015 12:01

Sorry to hear bubbly.

My scan was inconclusive. The egg sack has doubled in size but still can't see anything inside as still smaller than expected.The other relevant is that there was a second sack (!) which could explain the size issue. Got to go back in a week's time to hopefully get a better view of what's going on.

Bubblybubbles80 · 13/05/2015 12:07

Well I have had 3 scans and the first one showed nothing much other than sac at 5w3d and the second one showed feral pole of 2.8mm 21mm sac third one shown 8w3d feral pole of 3mm so no interval growth

Bubblybubbles80 · 13/05/2015 12:09

Girlie I'm glad your scan was better than mine and you still got hope fingers crossed for you and let us know what happens

girliesaints · 13/05/2015 12:10

It's so frustration Bubbly and understand what you've been through. What have you decided about next steps?