Recurrent Miscarriage Support Thread 23 - tests, treatment, trying again.

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Buckle up, the threads move like lightening! Tea, sympathy, information, support and combined wisdom to guide you through the maze of testing and treatment for recurrent miscarriage. Newbies always most welcome.

Please start with the traditional recap of your stats.

Awwh Gorgeous! Happy Birthday Faith! xxx xxx

Beautiful! Happy birthday faith! Hope you and your family enjoy your day (and it involves lots of birthday )

Congratulations Monten! What a day you've chosen, beautiful!

So sorry for bfn Brummie. Eod def sounds like good idea. Have every hope for you this next cycle xx

Happy birthday Faith!!

Wadsy great news on scan

Hope everyone else is enjoying the sun. DP is in doghouse after staying up til 7am drinking with my DB and DSIL, no doubt he'll be sleeping the rest of the weekend. Grrr.

Aw super cute- happy birthday Faith!

baking, tanny, tiny, just, purple, you mind me posting your little ones names on the cheat sheet? Just makes them a bit more real

Cute! Happy birthday poppet. You kept me hoping when I was low and I will always bw grateful for that xxxxx

Ooh. New thread. Will it be the one where my rainbow baby makes an entrance?

Love to everyone (feeling mushy)

I hope so longest ,although the rate we're going through these threads shortest might hold out til the one after

Absolutely love Faith's hair colour - golden: gorgeous.

Ooh gorgeous girl!!!! Happy birthday Faith aren't you a poppet!!!!!

Not sure about turkey baster for moment. I think it's my reserve option. DP would be really upset if I asked that.

Going to attempt every other day.

Have attacked the garden today - my 2nd bit of gardening ever as only had my first house since December so never had my own garden before now. Christ, it's bloody hard work!!!! But strangely therapeutic attacking the weeds.

Burgers and beer tonight and going to put feet up now with sweets and popcorn and watch theory of everything with DP

Love to you all.
And biggest love today to Monten and Faith

Will raise a Peroni for you both later xx

Happy birthday Faith, you look very happy indeed x

Aw baking she is beautiful. You must be very proud.

What stats do you need? I'm 29, TTC no 1 since sept 14, mmc dec 14, mc at five and a half weeks feb15, mc six and a half weeks now.

Oh god last night was rough. Sorry if this is a trigger or tmi but everything 'passed' and was in my hands. just to rub salt in the wound I went to see my mum today and pregnany brother and sil had decided to pay a surprise visit.

Snoopy, sorry you had that experience. Look after yourself. x

That's so hard brummie. Have you tried different places/situations/positions to take your minds of things? I still think the eod thing will help eventually if you just shrug it off and make sure he knows it doesn't matter when he isn't able to make it. So hard for them, poor things. And no doubt he's pretty aware when it all happens with you, particularly with your slightly shorter cycle, I guess there are fewer days to hide it in.

Sorry snoopy, i hadn't refreshed the page. So sorry you had to go through that. I'll add you to the list and why don't you stick around with us for a while x

Baking she's a total cutie!!! Can't believe she's 12 months already. Amazing

Sorry to hear it's BFN Brummie and for DH's problems with closing the deal. I think a lot of men have that issue at some point and ttc doesn't help. My DH had the same but came back online

Waving hi to you all. X

Unfortunately whilst I can hide the exact day, due to short cycles I can't really hide the approx time.

Just going to have to try EOD from end of period and hope how regularly we do it will make him relax

I don't want to make a thing out of it as I can tell it has upset him

arrgh i just lost a long post

march my stats are 34 ttc1. 1mc (july 14|) 2mmc (oct 14 and may15)

snoopy I'm sorry to hear about your 3rd m/c, i just had a d&C on tuesday my cramps have got bad yesterday so hot water bottle has been out, at least with the 3rd one you will get reffered to RMC,

i just found out one of my friends had a baby on the due date of my second one :( 15 may 15 which made me sad today. sometimes at night i just feel like crying the house down. i have started a journal though. I don't know why i sometimes panic that my husband will leave me, not because of this but added to the fact his family hate me, and they want him to leave me.

i can't wait for my holiday in june. just gutted that i won't be tts so i will need to be careful.

brummie have you tried role play and build it up with anticipation, although me and hubby haven't had to try to hard but sometimes he generally has problems when he has been getting regular action.

faith happy birthday chic may all your dreams come true.

Ah happy birthday to gorgeous faith !! One, I can hardly believe it. She was the first thread baby I 'saw' born, and definitely brought me hope. Hope you, dh, faith and your boys all had a lovely day baking

longest oh no hope you and dh get well soon. Are you just waiting for labour or are there any induction plans? Hoping it won't be too long before your new baby is in your arms. Anxiety is inevitable after rmc, carry on sharing with us - we are all rooting for you!!

brummie argh what a stress for you and dh. Agree with everyone else that a relaxed, never mind attitude is the best, but absolutely appreciate that is not easy. It may well be just a blip that rights itself. Sure he will get back on track soon.

on phone so can't start new thread...looks lime e need one though..

Like we, even

Done new thread

Sorry to hear about the baby born on your due date bubbly. Speaking from more experience than I'd like about this matter, it's totally shitty. I really hope your friend is understanding about it.

Also very much understand the worrying about your dh leaving you thing. I often worry about this and I think mostly the reason I think this is because I wouldn't want to be with me, the way I am at the moment. In my more positive moments, I'm able to see that dh understands and doesn't think as badly of me as I do about myself. A very good friend of mine who went through a mc a few years ago said to me recently that I need to learn to love myself again. wise words (but hard to do). This applies to you too. I am absolutely sure your dh does not want to leave you. This puts huge strain on a relationship but it also shows how strong you are, both individually and as a couple. Sod the family. They have no say in this. Big hugs x

thanks march girl i think you are right i need to learn about worrying about things that are in front of me not things that might be.

New thread

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/miscarriage/2385987-Recurrent-Miscarriage-Support-Thread-24-tests-treatment-trying-again

We are done on this thread - see you on other side!!!!