monten argh to your boss. Rant away.
barking I echo what everyone else has said, there is hope. I absolutely appreciate how horribly stressful this must be for you though, and send you hugs.
counting thank you. Its got to be helpful to see the positives of all this continuous, relentless stress and sorrow being over, whatever the outcome is. How are you holding up during this waiting time?
sebs glad you got a response.
flower I very much doubt you offended anyone, don't worry.
longest thank you for your very kind and thoughtful words. They lifted me. Without you ladies on here I think I would be quite lost. I don't think I have any illusions about adoption - I know it"s practically impossible to be matched with a baby, and adopted children can have all manner of issues, and they have usually had a pretty hard time of it which brings it's own problems. My main concern would be DS, and how he would adapt. When I feel a little more balanced I think I will look into it, learn more, and see where that takes us.
baking it's strange isn't it, how much women seem to process their MC's and it just doesn't have the same effect on the men. I definitely feel that life is just the way it is. There's no fairness, no rhyme or reason most of the time. Its just about how you eventually deal with the crap that's thrown your way. On a good day, I can see the way through it, and feel quite empowered. On a bad day, it's tough. How is Mr Baking coping generally with F's diagnosis? And how is she doing herself?