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Recurrent Miscarriage Support thread 13 - tests, treatment, trying again

986 replies

bakingtins · 02/11/2014 19:44

Welcome everyone! A thread for anyone who has experienced recurrent miscarriages and is in need of information, companionship, tea and sympathy. Newbies welcome to join at any stage.

Start with the traditional recap please......

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Erica21 · 18/11/2014 07:47

Thanks just, forgotten to get some pg tests so will get some at same time as AB today. Doc said he was giving me two types to take as am allergic to penicillin, so that sounds like fun... Tbh I just want to be better and move on, its a never ending rollercoaster this x

Boozle hope you're ok x

Boozle80 · 18/11/2014 07:53

I'm ok, I kept dreaming there will be a heartbeat - I know it's unlikely though. Scans at half two - I just don't understand why this keeps happening :(

bakingtins · 18/11/2014 08:14

boozle everything crossed for good outcome at your scan later. Hope you managed some sleep.

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bythesea82 · 18/11/2014 09:08

boozle huge hugs for you, hope the scan later is better than you are thinking.

smoppet sorry to hear your news, hope you are doing ok.

Bristolian1 · 18/11/2014 09:29

Boozle thinking of you today. I really hope it's a false alarm Flowers

Smoppet really sad to read your news, I hope things haven't been too bad overnight and you're coping of today.

Flen · 18/11/2014 11:33

Smoppet so sorry to read this, hugs to you.

Boozle thinking of you today.

TinyTear · 18/11/2014 11:37

smoppet so sorry for your news

Boozle good luck today!!

On my news I am now 19+3 and it seems I have popped... still briking it for my 20w scan next week...

longestlurkerever · 18/11/2014 13:18

Thinking of you boozle. Will keep everything crossed.

Good luck for your scan tiny. 20 weeks! x

Marchgirl · 18/11/2014 14:07

Thinking of you for your scan boozle x

cloudjumper · 18/11/2014 14:30

smoppet so sorry Sad

boozle Thinking of you

tiny Whoa - narly 20 weeks already?! That came fast!

bythesea82 · 18/11/2014 14:55

boozle really hoping it was ok Flowers

Boozle80 · 18/11/2014 15:03

It's all ok! We have a little bean measuring 7 and a half weeks! I've got another pool of blood in my uterus, just outside the pregnancy sack which is causing the bleeding. Thank god! I was completely convinced we'd lost this one

TinyTear · 18/11/2014 15:05

Good news Boozle

Another milestone reached!

longestlurkerever · 18/11/2014 15:07

Fantastic news boozle. What a huge relief! Hope everything is smooth from now on.

smoppet, I hope you're looking after yourself as best you can and are able to take some time off to recover.

tannyLoo · 18/11/2014 15:15

Yay Boozle! Brilliant news x

Smoppet hope you're feeling OK.

Purplefrogshoes · 18/11/2014 15:17

Yay boozle

Marchgirl · 18/11/2014 15:22

So pleased boozle. What brilliant news. You can relax for a bit now. When is your next scan?

Flen · 18/11/2014 15:23

Great news boozle, must be such a relief!

bythesea82 · 18/11/2014 15:32

boozle phew! Hope that blood all absorbs fast and stops scaring you. When are they going to scan you again?

bootles · 18/11/2014 15:57

Gosh boozle what a relief! Great news

smoppet how are you doing?

bootles · 18/11/2014 16:06

Officially I'll be 5 weeks tomorrow by dates. So I need to get gp to refer me to old epau (miles from new gp) as i prefer to be on familiar ground. As per coventry I should be scanned at 6 weeks, then start clexane if its in the right place.

For childcare/work purposes mon and tues are the best days for me to have scans. But I ovulated late and reckon i am 4 days behind dates. Do I go at 6 weeks when I will really be 5+3 (or 5+2 if i go on a tues) and there's no real chance of seeing a hb, or a week later when at least I would know how things are progressing? But would wait a week longer and wouldnt be able to start clexane until then...

longestlurkerever · 18/11/2014 16:10

I'd say go sooner bootles as you'll only panic if you feel you're "late" starting your clexane. With any luck you'll be told to come back for a second scan quite soon.

TinyTear · 18/11/2014 16:27

I'd go earlier

bootles · 18/11/2014 16:35

Thanks ladies..yes you're right about the clexane, even if I was starting it 4 days earlier than 6 wks, that's better than 3 days later than 6 wks. Hopefully they'll agree to a scan a week later or something.

Amazing how far along you two are. Its true about other people's pregnancy's passing fast!

smoppet · 18/11/2014 16:35

Thanks for kind words everyone, I'm ok thanks. The misoprostal worked quickly and it was all done by bedtime. Feeling ok today, reasonably positive (though bit cross this morning that DP couldn't take the day off). Boozle I am SO pleased for you! Great news, fingers crossed this bean keeps on growing. Thanks again everyone, so nice to have your kind words/thoughts. X