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Original poster

Hi girlies ,anyone live in the SIDCUP,BROMLEY,CHISLEHURST,or surrounding areas

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MrsLoveToChat2U · 18/02/2005 22:09

Hi everyone,
Hope your all well and not too exhausted from your day.
This is my first time on mumsnet and it seems abserloutly brilliant. I just wanted to know if there are any mums out there who live in the above areas who may fancy meeting up for a coffee with the little ones.
Im 32 and live in sidcup, I have a 13month old little boy and I am 6 and a half months pregnant carrying a little girl
I recently went to a local toddler group in sidcup but i was shocked to find out how bitchy some of the mums could be. They gave me the once over before i got in the door, nobody came up to me and said a word, they all had their backs towards me and continued to chat and have a coffee. I felt soo awkward which is not like me as i am a very bubbly and confident person 99% of the time?? Also the childrens toys were filthy and as for the floor was another story.I was really dissapointed as i wouldnt take my little boy there again yet i loved the idea of him making new little friends, but just in a cleaner enviroment.
So if anyone is out there who loves tea, coffee or loves to "do lunch" especially with the summer coming up, please let me know.
Take care.
xx

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toomanypushchairs · 22/02/2005 13:01

can I join too? live in eltham and have dt's both boys, 2.2yrs

coldtea · 22/02/2005 13:11

Just had an idea!! What about 'whale of a time' in Greenhithe , if you don't know it , it's 2 mins from Bluewater. They have a reasonable size play bit with toys for the crawling babies. If you are interested i could do next tues wed or fri. Would prefer wed or thurs as we're at toddler group tues morn.

coldtea · 22/02/2005 13:12

Sorry , meant to add Toomanypushchairs of course you can join in

Xena · 22/02/2005 13:16

Weds would be a good day for me as were at a Toddler Group on a Thursday. We could do Whale of a time

coldtea · 22/02/2005 13:26

Excellent , we'll say Wed. Anyone else........

Xena , I'll wait & see if anyone else replies then CAT you & sort out a time

Xena · 22/02/2005 13:31

Weds next week?

lozinkent · 22/02/2005 13:31

Hi guys
Sorry can't do Wednesdays as go to Jo Jingles! If you meet up another time let me know!

toomanypushchairs · 22/02/2005 13:33

Wed sounds okay with me, not good at taking them out,doing the potty thing at the moment aswell, but will try. Let me know the time etc... thanks

coldtea · 22/02/2005 13:47

Too manypushchairs i've just sent you a CAT

Xena-I can't CAT you as your member profile is set not to receive messages. If you CAT me (Contact Another Talker) at the top of this page you can send me your address and i'll send mine back to you by email. You need to alter your member profile to enable others to contact you.

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MrsLoveToChat2U · 22/02/2005 14:08

My god, its all going on, Wait for me Im coming with ds - 14months almost.
Big thanks to coldtea for letting me know about this thread.
Im rubbish with directions though, never been whale of a time but dh keeps on about me going there.So just let me knowon the day and bear with me re directions as us greek girls are a bit scaty.
Keep me posted.xx

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Xena · 22/02/2005 15:08

CT have just sent you a cat and adjusted my settings.
MLTC look forward to meeting you.
Must confess toomany is my sister I was laughing to myself because she didn't know I was xena and just arrived at myself telling me that she had been talking to xena and coldtea and was going to meet up with them lol

Xena · 22/02/2005 15:10

should have read
She just arrived at my house

mummytummy · 22/02/2005 15:29

Are you doing morning or afternoon at Whale of a Time?

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MrsLoveToChat2U · 22/02/2005 15:35

Not sure mt, I think cold tea is arranging time as she knows the place a little more.
watch this space. Be great to meet everyone.xx

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coldtea · 22/02/2005 17:52

Xena , i've just sent you a CAT
mummytummy-I can't CAT you as your member profile is set not to receive messages. If you CAT me (Contact Another Talker) at the top of this page you can send me your address and i'll send mine back to you by email. You need to alter your member profile to enable others to contact you.
MLTC2U-i've just e-mailed you

Hope i've got everybody!! It should be good!

coldtea · 22/02/2005 17:55

mummytummy , do you have a Dd or ds? Just wondering as my dd doesn't know any girls!!!

coldtea · 22/02/2005 19:01

Apologies mummytummy , i've just re-read this this thread & seen their ages

Xena · 22/02/2005 19:04

hi CT haven't recived CAT did you get mine?

Allycat · 22/02/2005 22:32

Hi Guys
Can I come too? I know where it is. When are you meeting? Is it tomorrow or next Weds? I hope its next Weds. What time? How will we know who's who? I have ds 6y (he'll be at school) and ds 6m - stuff the toys, I'm coming for a chat and a cuppa!

coldtea · 22/02/2005 22:45

Allycat , That's great you can make it! CAT me & i'll send you the details

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MrsLoveToChat2U · 23/02/2005 08:14

Hi Allycat,
tried to send yo a cat but you have not set up your profile do so by clicking onto the details above.
Of coursse you can come. its next wednesday when we are going.xx

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Allycat · 23/02/2005 13:11

Hi guys. I can't find anything on my user profile to change to allow CATs. I have gone into contact another talker myself so you can get my e-mail address. I'll keep popping on here in the meantime incase it doesn't work. Have you decided on a time for next Wed yet?

wobblyweeble · 23/02/2005 13:25

Hi alleycat, if you go into contact another talker there should be a link in the first sentance about it. Meeting at 11am by the way. will you be able to make that?

wobblyweeble · 23/02/2005 13:26

just realised I have blown my cover! was trying to use a different name so that my sister wouldn't know it was me..... I'm also toomanypushchairs.

toomanypushchairs · 23/02/2005 13:28

dh says "thats the problem with deception" you get found out!