Hi SJ, you'll be about 5 mins from me in the car then. For now at least, I'll have to move at some point in the near-ish future....
As for hotspots, they tend to be Kew, Syon, Chiswick House for garden/outdoor type stuff. Lollipop club at London Welsh and Childsplay Cafe for indoor type stuff.
And Foxie's or KewCumber's for tea, margaritas, paddling pools and general frivolities!!
And my place for any ad-hoc coffee and cake moments.
We went, en masse, to Bockets Farm a while back too.
Activities sans les enfants (where's Nanou? I want some praise for this!!) tend to involve restaurants around the area with a reasonable price list and good transport links.
Next one is being planned now for June at Pizza Rustica near Richmond Station.
ps: I must add I did get 3 actual gifts. One from MIL, one from shewhoisbuggeringofftoS'pore and one from bestfriend. DH's card says gift is in his wallet........