@52andblue
I need my coffee in the morning. I drink it with a splash of milk but hate cream / black coffee. Will that mess things up? Why is cream / butter ok but milk not as both the same product?
Because milk has far more carbs than cream. Double cream has 1.5g carbs per 100ml, whereas semi-skimmed milk has 4.8g!
If you're genuinely only having a splash, and only one cup, then it shouldn't be a problem - but I'd try it with cream or black and see how you get on. The other thing with cream is that generally you'd add a lot less than you would with milk.
Right now I have:
am: large cafetière of coffee over the morning (a bit of milk)
Even if you're only having a splash of milk in each cup, if you're drinking a large cafetière of coffee that could add up to a lot of milk - and so a lot of carbs.
two boiled eggs on a slice of wholemeal. Piece of fruit
The eggs are fine - just ditch the toast and the fruit. I know you'll think that won't be enough to stop you getting hungry, but trust me it will be!
Lunch: sandwich with salad and protein. piece of fruit
Salad and protein is fine - bread and fruit isn't! So I'd go for something like tuna mayo (that you might have had in the sandwich) with a good side salad, dressed with an oily dressing and/or mayonnaise
Mid afternoon piece of homebaking
Sorry, but this is verboten on Bootcamp!
Dinner - same as kids but small portion. So: pasta, shepherds pie, chicken curry, roast, - bog standard family dinners. Piece of fruit
First, drop the fruit. Secondly, the pasta/mash/rice is out, so you need to look either for different things to cook, or for substitutes. If I make spaghetti Bolognese for the rest of the family, either I'll have just the meat sauce with lots of Parmesan on top, or I'll have it on a bed of courgetti (spiralised courgettes), thinly sliced and boiled/steamed white cabbage, or I use these noodles, which are almost zero carbs . For shepherds pie, substitute potato mash for mash made from celeriac and leek, or cauliflower or swede. Chicken curry is fine, just serve with veg instead of rice. And as far as a roast is concerned, lots of lovely veg - just not roast potatoes or parsnips or Yorkshire pudding!
There are lots of lovely, easy and family-friendly recipes here that might help you
Often I don't sit down till 11pm. I've fallen into the habit of having a piece of cheese (and oatcakes) or chocolate then. Very bad idea!
Nothing wrong with the cheese - but drop the oatcakes and the chocolate! Once we move into Bootcamp Light (after the first two weeks), you'll be able to re-introduce chocolate, but it will need to be at least 70% cocoa.
I need to adapt this! Drop fruit, carbs, choc, cheese
Not sure why you think you should drop the cheese? Unless you have an issue with dairy - which you won't know until we get going - there's nothing wrong with the odd piece of cheese. Just don't go mad ... !
I'm planning on scrambled eggs no toast
Perfect. You could also add to this, e.g. cheese, or smoked salmon
^Lunch - take the bread away and have big salad with tuna / chicken
dinner? can i just eat the fish / meat part with no carbs and add extra green veg?^
Perfect - and yes! 
Hope that helps 