I hadn't mentioned to her I was doing this WOE so was a bit concerned I was going to go way off plan
Apparently my other friend had mentioned it to her at the weekend and she researched it so she could be supportive.
KondoKonvert that’s interesting, and lovely, but I want to flag some things.
First, why didn’t you mention your WOE to your friend?
Second, why were you willing to possibly abandon your WOE for a meal where it was—clearly—avoidable?
Third, there is zero shame stating our dietary (not solely in the sense of weight loss) preferences.
It’s clear your lovely friends were supportive, as they would be if you were vegetarian or lactose intolerant or gluten free or allergic to shellfish.
What I’m trying to say to all Bootcampers is that there is no shame in stating “I’m on a healthy way of eating and my goal is to lose weight, so I won’t be eating x or x, but thank you. Can’t wait to see you”