oatcakes - really glad to hear you've got a possible replacement lined up and almost ready to start. That's really good news.
c4 - Hope you have a better day today. I suspect it wouldn't be hard. Love the fact your ward had a LCHF meal for you. Great support team there!
Well, I was wrong, there was no suggestion about CF being there for dinner. Think that was only because he had to be back for something, though. DP and VF actually turned up earlier than expected, which was surprising. Of course, they'd already had a drink, and when we got back to the house disappeared to the shed for another. It was a shame, I'd hoped to persuade them to have a cuppa first, so I could have a chat with VF, and he would have been up for it, but not DP. So they had alcohol instead, and then came back to the house and had more. Tried to have a decent conversation with VF but DP kept drunkenly butting in, so I'd pick up the iPad and read whatever thread I found. Rude to VF, possibly, but not as rude as DP.
I think VF is realising how much I put up with from DP. Whether he'll have words with him I don't know. But we'll see.
DP did offer to make me a drink last night, and I asked for hot water and lemon, without sugar or honey, which he did, willingly, go and make for me. However, he put some honey in it, despite what I said. He did offer to make me another, but I couldn't be bothered. I've realised that what is most hurtful about that was the fact that he never listens to what I say (have to repeat myself multiple times, even when he's sober), yet I can't have a conversation with him without him telling me what CF has said on the subject. And it's not a question of sobriety as he rarely is when with CF.
Thankfully he's thinking of going away again at the weekend, so I get the place to myself again. Can't wait!