BIWI DS1 has bombed out completely with EEEU (though the U is probably also an E as he had extenuating circs and they haven't processed it yet).
He's already made the decision to move to BTEC Sport. But DH and I have been begging him to keep his options open. Needless to say, since he hasn't EVER taken any of our advice, he wasn't listening right now either.
I do feel miserable (like I've failed as a parent) - I've realised everyone else who's bright kids went to state school - and thrived - were either freaks of nature, girls or they were tutored all the way through.
He went from being a very bright kid with lots of support at home to someone who totally disengaged and has either been deluding himself about his studies, or lying to us. I trusted him to be 'taking responsibility' but it seems he wasn't actually ready for college with its laid back attitude and slack pastoral care!
College very reluctantly offered him to continue (but won't allow him to repeat the year) but on the basis he'd have to do the AS alongside A2. And he won't. Because HE HASN'T CHANGED HIS ATTITUDE ABOUT WORK AND LEARNING AT ALL. Really he isn't ready for it and should go get a job until he is, but he has to stay in education till he's 18!
MUCH midweek wine has been drunk since last Thursday. Am going to tolerate a gain if I have to!