Oh moo so glad you're home and dry. Speaking from experience with my fuckwit 18 year old ds, lip stitches heal beautifully!
chester that's such a great photo. I can tell you now, if that was my photo, I would not be able to stop my self from looking at it every five minutes!!
Well, I have gone down very comfortably to two meals a day now. So a cup of tea first thing, then lots of water whilst I do a power walk (did forty minutes this morning) then brunch, which was a roast chicken leg with cumin and turmeric and garlic skin, plus an avocado and slatherings of mayonnaise. I'll have dinner between five and six tinight, and it's really perfectly fine. Obviously if I do feel hungry for more I'll eat, which happened on Sunday, but the rest of the week it's worked better.
Now I'm very excited. I'm off to the city centre (shocking really, I rarely get in, despite living ten minutes walk away) and I'm going clothes shopping!
Dp 'put his foot down' the other day, and said I don't spend anything on myself, and that I needed to! The funny thing is, I really don't see it that way, and he pointed out that because I have autonomy over most of the purchasing for the house, ie food, dcs stuff, fucking toilet seats (which I'm constantly buying it would seem) I feel like I spend money on 'us' all the time......
Well, the upshot is I'm off to do some me spending right now. The only problem, is I do get a bit anxious, cos I get overwhelmed and choose the wrong item, then hate it, or I am underwhelmed and can't find the things I like, or the right size. Anyway, I need to get some basics, like black long sleeved tops etc, and I'm going to look out for a nice jacket... And maybe a skirt or something!
Wish me luck!