where have all the fit,interesting and available men gone PT20

[Betty79]

Has no one beat me to it with a new thread yet?

mrs h, we shall see eh. It says separated on his profile, it's meetic so he has to be paying for the service, cos he uses their email facility like me. So this makes me less dubious, cos i don't think he is rolling in it. Totally hear what you are saying tho.

Will be interesting to see how it develops!!

Evening ladies,

sponge - when's the date?

Belle - what does SOH mean?

Feedmenow - I go for the opposite age range!!! Really trying to get the age down a bit! Ew that sounds wrong! The oldest I've been is 12 years older than me - so that's not too bad

MrsM - fireman

If anyone's on DD or match how do you message each other if you're not subscribed?

sitting on hands, sm.

pirate - agree with mrsm actually re living arrangements. be cautious.

soldier has been on text again all day - i remember his red flag now is separated - they're no go's right?!

Belle - Ah, I see!

Pirate - what living arrangements?

belle-how was your workout oogling tonight then, any flirting??

So would you lot consider seperated a red flag then? Boilerman is seperated, has been about a year he said, i didnt see it as a red flag, obv if it's only been a few months it would be a bit different. Has took him a month to ask me out via messages on fb too, so not one for rushing dont think!

anyway goggles has been texting still, feel a bit bad cos he's a nice bloke and would like to keep him as a friend but dont think it would develop to anything else, would you ladies go on a second date even if there wasnt a 'spark' on first one?

Juicy hope the exam went well on Friday and you had a good weekend to celebrate.

I'm feeling a bit flat at the moment and at the point where I can't imagine ever being interested in men again....will it pass I wonder

yep polish is deffo in a 'crazy place' afaik, so am leaving alone. He is a lovely guy, but he needs to sort his shit out.

next!!!

ahem - he hit me!!! lol. only jokingly thou. tbh I give up I think am after a loosing battle but not really looking for anyone else.

ref the separation thing - I think for me it's a bit of one- the whole getting divorced and then thinking they'd want 'alone time' althou i'm not divorced et so can't talk really.

bares n woods?

'Do bears shit in the woods' belle

Janos, I am definitely with you on this one for the foreseeable future. Might go out with Salesman if he gets in touch but it will be for a chat and cuddle only!

Got my rescheduled op a week Wednesday so men will be the last thing on my mind for a while.

Got a heavy week at work so early night for me.

he bares wood?

lou

Thanks eve after revelations of last week (oops I just fell into bed with my ex girlfriend cos like she asked me and I forgot to tell you)I'm just not in the mood for it.

Also have an early start tomorrow so I'm off.

Night all

sleep well

janos-dont blame you after all that crap!

eve-good luck with the op

HI

It's my daughters birthdaty. I love her so so so mcuh, she is a trooper.

ex dh turned up on our doorstep last night, totaly freaked her out , this is the guy who hasn't had any contact since last yr.

What a selfish git, she was crying and panicked.

BUT

today she is happy, and with all my hard work to keep her life happy, i refuse to let him spoil this day.

xxx

hi all,

sorry, been off in the land of study again.got shed loads to do and ex is staying thai his max visa limit.. then decided to stop over in italy and have a few weeks there too... i'm about and ready to explode and demand he get his asse back. as much as he is an arse.. the kids are really missing him now , this morning he says he will be another month in total ... i think i will go to his family today and get them to call his mum , good old meditterarean families.. i know if i do this his mum will make his visit home so hellish he'll come home to get some peace

will try keep up here.

mrsm - so does neighbour have gf visiting? or living with him.

eve - whats your op? did i miss that bit? and go for it to see salesman. get a smile on your face at least

belle - so are you giving up on marine completely?

janos - how you feeling this week?

pc - after reading the further info about polish.. he might be fit and interesting.. but i dont think he's available.

betty - so are you seeing boilerman again?sometimes if you weren't in right frame of mind a 2nd date helps make your mind up either way?

monty - feeling better about bf yet?

everyone else. howdy doody

oh pc - how old is dd?happy birthday to her

me - ... trying to detach from motorola. the end is near.

got a session planned with irish this week. staying over to take him to hospital to have his wisdom teeth removed under anasthaetic and drive him home the following day.

forces - had the odd msg when he gets chance.

Happy birthday to your dd pirate. Dont let your ex ruin it .

Juice I think you and irish will be am ongoing and complicated friendship. I have had a few of those too lol

lou - well i'm not going to turn down having my dinner cooked for me.... or the breakfast in bed(spare bed) i'm receiving in advance for my hospital runs

hi all

place marking ... and got the stupidest message ever today - from a man with no picture and very little information ... and saying 'm'.

Yup, that's it - m. As you can imagine I was immediately overwhelmed with lust/happiness/the urge to commit violence (delete as applicable) and sent him some letters of my own - wtf; f.o; t w a t; r u stpd?

Am putting myself back on shelf I think, there's too many weirdoes and not enough serious propositions out there.

Come up here Janos there's a great view and I've got wine and pringles!

kdk,

it really makes me want to shoot those ones!!

don't be on the shelf, be on the way to the till, you never know who might choose you!!!

oh oh.

ok, bad day yest with ex BUT, a lovely guy who has been smiling at me in local shop for 2 months, gave me his number about an hour ago. Ran out after me!!!

This has never happened to me before. PLUS I was actually looking fair-moderate as i always make more effort on dd's b day.

I feel quite

good for you pc - and happy birthday to your dd.

Everyone always says be a buyer, not a seller - only problem is there's nowt I see for sale that takes my fancy ... and a lot that makes me feel queasy!!

woohoo pirate

why not just be browsing if you see nothing for sale?

Great Pirate! Sounds like you are having a special day.

Think about being the buyer is that you have to pay for it. Suppose you do on the paysites, lol.

Kdk - O.m.g. I am at my desk in work p.m.s. and r.o.f.l. at that message . You do make me larf.

Pirate - happy birthday to dd. Glad ex didn't manage to ruin it for her.

OMG I bet you're really chuffed with phone number, how lovely.

Juice - what's he done now?? and at your exh. They make you scream laugh don't they the way they swan off. Hope you have a blast with Irish anyway .

Bf being ok, what's done is done and never forgotten.

Hi Belle, Eve, SCL, ASBM, PMG, Janos, Ninah, Sponge, SM, Lou, Betty, MrsM, Elasta and everyone else .

Am really busy at work, you wouldn't think it would you? lol