Ok an update from OJ for those that have been asking

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You know how the last three years have been so bloody difficult and over that time i have shared a lot on MN which in turn has meant that i have had a huge amount of support which frankly still blows me away. you have walked beside me throu the tears so i think it is only fair that you get to share the joy
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The kids continue to make me proud and amaze me in equal measures they have coped with the death of their lovely dad far better than i could have imagined.
i am doing really well, it has been almost 16 months now and i have adjusted to the new life i didn't want or choose and.............................
i feel very lucky for what we do have now.
some of you have asked on facebook what it is that is making me smile and the answer is.......... i have been seeing someone who is very special and he has made me feel very special too.
He says that he understands that i will always love Steve and he doesn't want that to ever change but hopes that i have enough love to share with him

oh yes he does massage

congratulations oj & Tom - fantastic news

Congratulations

hope you have had a lovely evening with Tom and that he managed to ease your sore arm.can you send him down here ,i fancy a massage too !

all going very very well, we have booked a holiday for all 7 of us for february

Oh that is so lovely OJ.Where have you decided to go? What a great future you all have to look forward to together.>

this is what we have booked, it is a bit special

www.solmarvillas.com/villa.aspx?reference=VIL483

That is lovely Oj ,we stayed in that resort about 3years ago.we went over on the ferry to Fuenventura as well,so we saw two islands.we had a wonderful time there and made some very good friends.The only problem we had is that we were at the top of a very steep hill ,but i have to say the view was spectacular.

Hia OJ

Wow what a lovely Villa, roll on February for you all!!!!!

He looks fab OJ. I hope you all have a great Christmas and a fantastic holiday.

OOOOOOOPPPPPPPPPPSSS! I forgot to say:

CONGRATULATIONS to you and Tom!

you deserve all the happiness

Oh, how lovely OJ. I missed this.

CONGRATS to the both of you. Brilliant news - you deserve it girl xx

Thanks, this is me --->

i can't see pics anymore boo hoo!

hows you oj?xx

you should be able to see photos by clicking on posters name and then photos is at the bottom.

thanks oj xx