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Where have all the fit and interesting men gone part 12a

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lou33 · 30/09/2009 08:39

seeing as there has been discussion about using 13

(not that it bothers me)

i feel sorry for myself my back is still playing up, and i just tripped and made it hurt in the usual lower back place

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FluffySaysTheDailyMailsShite · 11/10/2009 23:02

Still pining over the bloke though, he's said he just wants to be friends. Weird though as he flirts and is really nice to me.

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lou33 · 11/10/2009 23:03

welcome fluffy

eve, the point is he had no money to feed himself, if he didnt feed himself he wouldnt be in any state to be able to take care of the kids, which means the few hours i have started getting to myself on a sunday afternoon are stopped as soon as they start

it wasnt the plan to continue loaning him money, but i want him to be able to look after them at full strength

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witcheseve · 11/10/2009 23:04

Fluffy I'm on POF too, it should be renamed plenty of dreggs. POD perhaps plenty of shit [POS] but I am very fussy.

FluffySaysTheDailyMailsShite · 11/10/2009 23:07

Hmm. I signed up last week, 2 days later I found the ex/new friend there!! I can't win. I see him alot anyway, he's too attentive, doesn't want me to leave etc.

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lou33 · 11/10/2009 23:09

i had some good times from pof, though i didnt find anyone long term

my profile has been hidden on there for a few months now though

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sincitylover · 11/10/2009 23:11

also still on pof but hardly look at it tbh

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lou33 · 11/10/2009 23:12

i am not on any dating places afaik

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FluffySaysTheDailyMailsShite · 11/10/2009 23:13

I can't think of what else to try. I'm secretly hoping for the ex/friend to sort himself out. I cant see it happening though

sincitylover · 11/10/2009 23:18

if I do give up with samename don't think I'll be in a rush to get back on any sites tbh

My life just seems to be one logistical nightmare.

I just need my perfect man to plop down in front of me be agreeable to slotting in with my lifestyle and give me no hassle

Just ogling Ray Winstone on TV.

witcheseve · 11/10/2009 23:19

Fluffy, you have something in common with others on this thread. We are a good source of support.

Just wondering how Juicy is she has been quiet recently.

witcheseve · 11/10/2009 23:20

Scl you have been hanging on in there for a while, that makes me think there is something that suits you with samename.

sincitylover · 11/10/2009 23:21

I love this thread

FluffySaysTheDailyMailsShite · 11/10/2009 23:23
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sincitylover · 11/10/2009 23:29

not really sure eve what I think. I certainly don't see him enough to get bored with him.

He's lovely company and not like many men I have met. He is an intersting combo of being quite sweet but also quite 'ard.

I'm not sure though whether we are just doing for each other ie I could be his Miss Right Now.

I suppose also this is the first person I will have met where there isn't any end goal ie pre dc I was knew ultimately that I wanted dc so anyone serious there was that in mind. But now that's not an issue and don't want a live-in/marriage so all the goalposts have changed IYKWIM

sincitylover · 11/10/2009 23:31

I'm sort of drifting

FluffySaysTheDailyMailsShite · 11/10/2009 23:33

It's really hard hey!

thesouthsbelle · 11/10/2009 23:36

just marking me spot again till I can catch up tomorrow.

am brain fried now after figuring out maths.

also been talking to the maths geek (think i've mentioned him b4) from the XP batch on POF, in the mental place for being paranoid, anyhow he's found faith & is currently bending my ear about how I worship an empty idot.

plus news, gymboy/I talked for a while on FB chat tonight & a quick call. touch wood no wobbler yet about being home.

witcheseve · 11/10/2009 23:38

SCL, he sound OK think I could do with an injection of samename. lol

It's a different ball game anyway when all you want is company and hot sex. Rather than worrying about all the other stuff.

witcheseve · 11/10/2009 23:39

belle, can I help with the maths? Not now obviously but if it's accounting stuff I might be able to help.

thesouthsbelle · 11/10/2009 23:43

nope eve thanks it's for my course - I for some reason am doing an OU maths degree to be a teacher. so tonight was all about radians & trig. - deep joy!

Could do with a night of cuddles with gymboy.

FluffySaysTheDailyMailsShite · 11/10/2009 23:46

(sigh) My ex/friend/bloke (I don't know what to call him is online, we are still on MSN, I've hidden mine so he doesn't know I'm online. This is bad right?

I can't do maths, it's been a long time.

sincitylover · 11/10/2009 23:48

think I put too much pressure on him in the hot sex dept tho!!

That's usually my first priority but think for him the company might come first. Pardon the pun!

If we go out first tho he tends to eat and drink quite alot - it's no good on a full stomach TMI

Perhaps I'm too mercenary about it!!

sincitylover · 11/10/2009 23:49

and I'm crap at maths

sincitylover · 11/10/2009 23:52

presumably he won't know you are hidden. Do you want to talk to him?

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lou33 · 11/10/2009 23:55

its not bad if you dont want to talk to him

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