Where have all the fit and interesting men gone part 12a

[lou33]

seeing as there has been discussion about using 13

(not that it bothers me)

i feel sorry for myself my back is still playing up, and i just tripped and made it hurt in the usual lower back place

I had a tab open on Facebook that I forgot about so I had to come clean and open the MSN. He's not spoken to me though and I have not spoken to him. I hate all this.

i wouldnt have bothered

No belle I cannot help with OU or even A level maths.

Fluffy don't worry about being online at all, non of his business.

SCL keep getting what you want.

Ah well, he knows I'm here now. It's up to him.

Good luck SCL!!

did he contact you fluffy?

agree you shouldn't hide offline thou. either that or just block him. I used to hate it that XP would pounce literally as soon as I got online, or gymboy comes online looking to talk if he can't get thru on the mobile. bit annoying at times.

anyhow,

scl - agree re same name, how are things with him now?

Lou - your ex doesn't seem to have much consideration for anyone else tbh.

annoyed - good luck meeting the man - are we likely to see you in the paps on his arm then?

I'm also v crap at maths - god only knows why i'm choosing to do it at degree level - well it is ultimately to become a maths teacher in seniors schools. but it's so hard.

and where is that juicy gone???

no he doesnt , i doubt he will ever change

just spoke to lb who i think has over partied/ burning the candle at both ends as he is now not well

only partial sympathy for him i think

No, he didn't. He spent an hour on facebook playing games!! I am annoyed with him anyway, when he said he just wanted to be friends last week I asked him not to talk about relationships with me, the first thing he said on Saturday was that he's not gay yet He's a kid!!

he doesnt sound worth bothering about tbh

fluffy - sounds complicated. and give him a nickname if you cant think of an approriate term yet

south - glad things seem to be smoother with gymboy. you deserve it.

lou - ex... at least LB is still treating you well.

eve - turkish sounds interesting. so are you going tolet him come visit?

mousie - hows things with with your fella... is he NM yet?

scl - did you ever have the chat with samename about meeting DS?

everyone else

i'm taking step back from mumsnet. really up to my eyes with my coursework.

things are still peachy with bf .. no complaints.

Juicy, glad thing are going well, thanks for the update.

Still waiting to here if TD gets back to me re coming over. It was his suggestion if he turns up on his own steam I will see him.

OK to have a break from here, it is allowed.

ok juicy but you have to keep us updated still

yep things seem to be smoother - in some ways.... others not... GBF is now fully back in the land of the living, & is now able to have contact with the outside world. it's made me realise what an idiot i've been in not doing somehting with him sooner when we had the chance - we did, but both resisted it. He's an amazing man, he's got a GF, who he'd split up from, but she's been there every step with him so far so can't take it away. Think I need to walk away, cos one thing's for sure, if the oppurtunity arose, gymboy or not I wouldn't miss it again. we both used to joke if we were single by the time i'm 30 we'd get married, & have a bunch more kids/he'd work & i'd look after them all, then both said we really loved each other. Oh well...

Fluffy - you said it - child! bin him off - totally. lol.

lou - lb & no sympathy.

i sent him a text saying i just had a 3 hr nap (think this cough has turned into a chest infection)

funnily enough he didnt reply

i will get told off for rubbing it in later

Just marking my place and saying hello.

Welcome to anyone 'new' who's joined.

I really don't have much to say about my love life (or lack of) so will just keep up with everyone else's!

As you were

lol. bet that won't go down well. lol.

hey janos.

Am back to pondering things out agian, haven't really talked to gymboy over the last few days well since sat am. have had a few texts/fb chat but only about 10 mins from phone calls. doesn't usually bode well, also we didn't make plans to see each other this week which usually we do, have gone from i'll ring you after to i'll try to ring you.

well he did wake me at 6.30 this morning with a couple of messages so fair is fair [winl]

I popped into 'Tom's shop today, he was as nice as pie, didn't want me to leave (again) so I stayed and helped him out. We had a chat, his ex's have definetly had a negative impact on him, he seems to have changed his outlook on how things are going for him though which is positive for him. He seemed more mature today (thank god). We'll see. I can't write him off just yet.

just spent some time on the phone to lb

he has had a long day and isnt well on top, up at 6.30, still not home by 8pm

i told him to get to bed and get some sleep, give his anti biotics a chance to work and stop staying up so late and rising so early

half term is coming soon so i am going to go see him overnight then, as well as plan to go meet for lunch before then at some point

Sounds good Lou

he did ask why he didnt find me waiting in my car outside his place when he got home tonight lol

Oh dear! Men are all alien species

no it's fine, he just meant he wanted to see me

its the way we banter

i say the same type of thing to him too

Ahh, I see.

The more I talk to mine the more we have in common, it's spooky really. I'm not sure the penny's dropped for him though, he seems to allow me to really get to know him, he doesn't have many good friends so this is good for him.

if we didnt both feel so under par i wouldve been tempted to go over for the night, as dd1 is almost 18 and doesnt have to be at college til after 11 tomorrow, BUT ds1 is not v well and ds2 has to be at school in the morning, so it would be slightly selfish of me

plus its a 1hr 40 drive