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Where have all the fit and interesting men gone part TWELVE

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lou33 · 07/09/2009 17:38

starts here

why would you bin off gymboy before asking about it?

he may well just have been checking mail or hiding a profile or something, talk to him before you dump him

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lou33 · 11/09/2009 20:15

nutty of course you can, but i did say to harman earlier if she felt so strongly then to message me offline

i am allowed to reply to her posts just as much as you are allowed to say your opinion

i would prefer to not sling mud but i also wont sit back and take it

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DONTtouchMUMSspecialJUICE · 11/09/2009 20:15

nervous - your comment was out of order to me. and i never made any remark to harman of any kind when she joined in the thread... which you could have taken the time to check before casting stones in everyones general direction.

harman · 11/09/2009 20:20

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Remotew · 11/09/2009 20:21

True Nutty it is a public forum. You can support your friend just as we can.

Coming on just to attack someone isn't really on epecially as she didn't introduced herself or explain who she was referring to. That's why Harman received a hostile reception.

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lou33 · 11/09/2009 20:23

he wasnt ever yours tho was he, ask p, she will confirm i was only trying to ensure you werent upset by it

you are misreading why i wanted to find out your reaction, and assuming i wanted to piss you off

anyway i feel no need to discuss this online further

you know how to contact me privately if you want to

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NervousNutty · 11/09/2009 20:24

So Lou can come and talk about harman but harman can't come on and reply ??

If lou didn't want this to be discussed on here then why tell you lot about it in the first place. Why even mention that she'd broken the news to some people who she though might not be pleased ? She knew harman was a member here so she might see it.

DONTtouchMUMSspecialJUICE · 11/09/2009 20:28

belle - well if emailing is fine by you then you need to leave it be. having another chat isn't going to have a different outcome as you will say its ok to email again?? does that make sense?

harman · 11/09/2009 20:31

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Remotew · 11/09/2009 20:31

We didn't know who though. Can often be tricky dating someone who you have people in common with and that's all Lou was referring to. As I said this thread used to be a bit of a sanctuary, shame it's spilt over but sure we will get back on track.

thesouthsbelle · 11/09/2009 20:34

yeah fair one.

I don't think lou ever named names, we knew nothing about who anyone was or the circs which they all met/were friends etc etc, so in essance it could be anyone.

either way it's not a discussion which should be aired in public.

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lou33 · 11/09/2009 20:35

thank you harman

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Remotew · 11/09/2009 20:35

Harman, it's a risk we all take when we start off with someone new. Like I said earlier no man is worth falling out over and I truly believe it. We are all big girls and hopefully can take care of ourselves in this strange world of men and dating.

That's what this thread is all about. I was going to leave last week because I couldn't be bothered to go on dates etc. The others said not to so we talk about clothes and other trivial stuff as well.

harman · 11/09/2009 20:37

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thesouthsbelle · 11/09/2009 20:40

I meant the ins outs & gorey details - I don't think lou's ever posted any of that - that was all I meant.

but as you were do as you all wish - that's it thou really isn't it - is any man worth falling out over?

harman · 11/09/2009 20:41

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Remotew · 11/09/2009 20:43

It's meant to annoymous though isn't it and not RL IYSWIM this all seemed too personal.

harman · 11/09/2009 20:51

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lou33 · 11/09/2009 20:51

the last thing i am going to say on this, is that i have said he is married, but he is separated , and we didnt start seeing each other until a couple of months after he moved out

and i also did say it was a bit awkward cos he had seen a mutual friend

im not responding anymore to this

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harman · 11/09/2009 20:55

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lou33 · 11/09/2009 20:59

you are very wrong, we spoke in april but didnt start dating til end of august

you need to check facts

anyway have a good evening

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harman · 11/09/2009 21:03

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Monty100 · 11/09/2009 21:56

Phew! Now that's out of the way..

Hi everyone.

Abouteve they have a peacocks thread on style and beauty!

RJ ASMB LOU and everyone hope you're all ok.

Remotew · 11/09/2009 21:56

Seem like harmony has been restored, silence is golden, all serene again.

Was looking to link my new Peacocks dress but couldn't find it on the website. It was only £16 and nothing special but I'm wearing it for a date next week and would have liked some advice. Also was checking at work and when I put in 'peacocks' it asked me if I wanted adult or non adult content. AMFG.

Monty100 · 11/09/2009 22:00

Abouteve - Pmsl at adult content. I went on the website today. How's your dd, settled into sixth form?

I have a few nice little bits from there, have been wearing a red/coral linen jacket this week that I bought in there a couple of years ago for about £7 in the sale! Have several other 'pieces' as well lol

Just an update for everyone too, I've been lurking as I'm still seeing Al (the one I had split up with).

Remotew · 11/09/2009 22:01

lol Monty, cross post.

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