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Where have all the fit and interesting men gone part TWELVE

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lou33 · 07/09/2009 17:38

starts here

why would you bin off gymboy before asking about it?

he may well just have been checking mail or hiding a profile or something, talk to him before you dump him

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lou33 · 11/09/2009 19:30

and you may notice i never actually mentioned who you were, you just outed yourself, i wonder why you felt the need?

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Remotew · 11/09/2009 19:30

Facebook is a social networking site and friends and friends etc. What does it matter how people meet, it's great if you chat to someone you hit it off with whether male or female.

harman · 11/09/2009 19:49

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Remotew · 11/09/2009 19:53

Harman, no-one on this thread had a clue who you were until you came on. Knew there might have been a sensitive issue so you are not telling us anything we didn't know.

Also we use nicknames for people on this thread as does the whole on mumsnet so please don't use real first names.

DONTtouchMUMSspecialJUICE · 11/09/2009 19:54

harman - please dont name names .

repost without names and ask that to be removed. or private mail.

i have no place being involved in this quarrel with lou, but please dont name people. we go to lengths of nicknames to keep identities private.

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lou33 · 11/09/2009 19:54

then why even bother posting about it on here?

i didnt message you because you refused to believe that we were only chatting as friends, which we were

nothing escalated with us until a couple of months after he left his wife,he never tried anything on, never made any moves

anyway tbh i dont have to justify anything to you at all, and i was only glad that my friendship wasnt going to be affected wrt p

i really am not at all bothered if you approve or not

i think you over estimate your self importance

i was just glad to be told you were not being ridiculous about it all, but maybe i was a bit hasty in thinking that

still i am glad you could predict what i would or wouldnt do so well, hope it makes you feel vindicated and you can just leave it alone now

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lou33 · 11/09/2009 19:55

yeh naming him is not on at all

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NervousNutty · 11/09/2009 19:58

She used his first name fgs, she didn't give out his full name, address and date of birth.

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lou33 · 11/09/2009 20:00

shall we let this mini drama go now and get back on track wrt the thread?

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harman · 11/09/2009 20:00

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Remotew · 11/09/2009 20:01

I've reported it and asked for it to be deleted.

DONTtouchMUMSspecialJUICE · 11/09/2009 20:02
harman · 11/09/2009 20:02

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NervousNutty · 11/09/2009 20:04

I am not shit stirring, I am sticking up for Harman. In am allowed to do that aren't I ??

After all on this thread you are all so far up lou's backside I am surprised you know what time of year it is.

DONTtouchMUMSspecialJUICE · 11/09/2009 20:06

anyhow,

back to the thread.

belle - when you had a chat the other day with him... did you actually say him being on thread upset you.

or did you tell him that you didn't want him going on??

if you said it was ok for him to go on to just email then he's not doing anything wrong.

if you dont care then leave it be... you seem to be having alot of serious "chats" very early on in a relationship that just go round in circles.

if you have already said you really dont like him doing this..... and he's going against your wishes..... doesn't look good does it? if he's clearly dismissing your feelings?

however if its really bugging you... the only chat you can have is one where you give him the ultimatum of the website or you???

are you really ready for that so early on?

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lou33 · 11/09/2009 20:08

actually harman if you ask p i was more concerned that it would upset you and didnt want that, so the weeping and wailing is exactly what i genuinely didnt want, not that any immoral things have gone on as we are both not with anyone

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DONTtouchMUMSspecialJUICE · 11/09/2009 20:10

nervous - perhaps go and read the thread. you will often find i regularly see things very differently to lou

i will await your apology.

Remotew · 11/09/2009 20:10

Nutty you know as well as I do we use nicknames, or acrymons (sp) the whole of mumsnet does. There are zillions of people with the same first name but we don't use them.

Your last comment was out of order. If you want a fight heated discussion there is the rest on mumsnet to do it on. Until tonight this thread was a supportive sanctuary.

Anyone is welcome to join and stay, yourself and Harman included but please no nasty snipping.

Peace and love.

NervousNutty · 11/09/2009 20:10

You will be waiting a long time.

thesouthsbelle · 11/09/2009 20:11

ok girls girls, off the thread on emails if you please. and as you were.

juicy - no didn't mention it was upsetting me. am gonna be rinign him later on - or at least was, his phone is off, he's on msn chat but isn't answering & apparently is doing job applications & stuff (which is prob right as he's looking for a new challenge) also the dating site's been updated - looks like this one is only done AFTER 3 full days and not before - so he's now on 3 days. either way thou....

anyhow enough of that - oh and worse bit is AF isn't due until next weds not this weds! (oops! lol) means i'll prob put on next week in the fat club - bastards!

DONTtouchMUMSspecialJUICE · 11/09/2009 20:11

FFS - pls pls pls ... will you discuss this in private.

Lou & Harman.

both of you.

i'm asking nicely as i really dont want to read about everyone laundry.

thank you in advance

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lou33 · 11/09/2009 20:12

i did say earlier i would prefer to do it offline

oh well

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NervousNutty · 11/09/2009 20:13

God you make it sound like it is a private members club. I know I can join if I like, because it is a public forum.

If i want to post to support another poster who others on this thread were hostile to the minute she posted then I will.

I am sorry if you feel that my comment was out of order, but it is my opinion and I stand by it.

Janos · 11/09/2009 20:14

FFS. Agree with eve. This is bloody ridiculous.

thesouthsbelle · 11/09/2009 20:15

sorry no i'm not ready for it - the emailing things is fine really. ti's the whole not knowing thing - need to learn to chill - woooosarrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr!

(not gonna put pressure on it all)

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