Where have all the fit and interesting men gone part TWELVE

[lou33]

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why would you bin off gymboy before asking about it?

he may well just have been checking mail or hiding a profile or something, talk to him before you dump him

agree - bin for musicman 'not flirty enough' rofl
crikey is it af time already? have been tired with new job, going to bed at about 8 every night, wouldn't be surprised if it was late this month
the good thing is no time to worry about man stuff
I need some winter clothes - where do they all go each year? - so will give peacocks a try if george or help the aged doesn't come up with the necessary
am so glad is weekend soon! and is really sunny here, would have been perfect a few weeks ago

Sunny here too Ninah.

Check Peacocks out they had some nice knitwear in. Might get a cuddly tunic or cardy from there and of course the prices are fab.

Flipping heck should really get on with some work!!!!

that's exactly what I need, will do that, ta!

i just got this from asos

it arrived this afternoon, and i love it

wrt the feedback about lb, one of them was and has been ok about it, the other one i dont know what her reaction has been, i will report back when i know anything

That's nice Lou, more glam than my new dress.

mousie, don't listen to your Aunt Sorry. I just feel strongly that you need to see a solicitor and it will be money well spent in the long term. Good luck
As for Musicman, how odd... his loss
Belle, I am not in an exclusive relationship, I have only just started dating again... I do chat with one guy a lot on POF and it is all about music. I have no intention of meeting him or he me, from what he says... could be a similar thing perhaps I don't know. Do think you need to have that discussion though.

mousie musicman thinks you are not flirty enough? Twat! You are well shot there I think.

And as for your aunt..if any of my family told me I ougght to be running round after XP I'd ask if they have taken leave of their senses! It most certainly IS NOT your job to run round after him. He's the one who chose to move away.

Liking the sound of cosy knitwear and there's some lovely stuff in Marks but I'm skinty mcskinto atm.

Man news. CM has asked me out (!) Sorry to say though that I don't take it seriously for a moment and reckon it's just an ego boost for him. I haven't said yes or no yet. But I'm going to say no.

Also had set to last night with CM2 who got all possessive and a bit creepy. Frankly. I'm bloody sick of men with 'attitude'. They can go take a flying leap.

Gorgeous dress lou

yeah could be winnie, am gonna bite the bullet I think & have the chat.... for sure... ho hum... he's just rung n we were chatting for about 5 mins or so but that was all.

said i'd give him a call back later on tonight & have a proper chat. ho hum.

re the clothes i'm also looking for jumper/cardi types for work. soo much warmer!

ps love the dress as well lou.

it makes me want to wear it on friday next week when i meet lb, but he has requested another outfit

I hope you are not planning on buying the big pants they suggest to go with it ...

What's the other outfit Lou, not a wrap around with no knickers is it?

Southbelle, agree you need to have a proper chat now, before you get too involved.

Mousie I was with someone who moved 280 miles to be with me. He had a DC and did the round trip every other week. His ex came here once to drop her off just because she and her nm wanted a romantic weekend in the area. You shouldn't have to do the travelling.

i dont need the big pants

he has asked me to wear my pencil skirt

other person has said she is ok about it too, but she didnt tell me, i was told by someone else

Are you OK with him telling you what to wear? I know it's flattering that he finds you irresistable in it but I would want to wear my newest thing.

nice dress lou

I need new clothes at the moment (I have lost 4 stone since March and constantly need new clothes!) but like Janos I'm skinty mcskinto atm (I've stolen your expression Janos because I like it ) Starting dating again has made me realise just how much I need new clothes

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I have a recommendation for a lawyer from a close friend. Thank you for all your support. Spoken to thetrekker, and looking forward to tomorrow.

Who are you, harman, and what trouble are you out to cause?

Erm mousie, harman is a fellow mner, or did lou leave that bit out ?

Harman, nice of you to join us

I spy some stirring go on here. Please let's not do this on what is a friendly and good natured thread.

lou is a lovely, kind person who has given me and others on here a lot of support and she doesn't deserve such mean spirited sniping.

mousie - good luck with the sols.

harman - not sure what that's about but feel free to join us.

Lou - wearing a dress to suit a man!?!

eve - was going to on sunday. Brother says I should just forget it chill out n go 'spread some oats as it were' - hmm ok then!

Lou has done me a lot of good too.

harman if you have an issue, email me privately i am pretty sure you dont want all your laundry aired in public and i have nothing to hide mysself

i was just saying i was glad you didnt seem pissed off but i am quite happy to elaborate on how it all went on , right here if i really have to

but i dont see why that should be necessary

but fwiw, he added me, i never picked him, we only got beyond friends in the last couple of weeks since he left his wife

i think you are the last person to be throwing stones, so lets jut be grown up shall we?