Where have all the fit and interesting men gone part ELEVEN

[lou33]

dollparts he messaged me through a dating site i forgot i was on

yes he has seriously nice eyes
def worth seeing him again me thinks!
beachbum i'm referring to here

lol at this thread. It is fascinating

Well, I am talking to 3 guys at the moment. Although one has already bored me stupid in txt messaging He also stopped txting when I answered his repested question for the second time about where I came from. Don't think I can be bothered. It is rude

Of the other two one lives relatively close and the other some time ago. Both seem quite interested but in different ways. I think this is going to be an education

repested repeated

asbm i think the point is he doesnt want me fancying one of his mates

he shares with 4 others, if they are all like him i wouldnt know where to look firts!

time ago? I think I am losing the plot Have no idea what that was meant to say beyond further away.

yes it is indeed winnie!
are you ready to provide us with your ratings yet?

I think no 1 gets a big fat 0 already for being so rude!

could give you some suggestions lou

asbm - yes..... still maintaining my cheesy

shattered though. 3 hrs sleep is not good look.

dc dont look to be sleeping anytime soon either.

lou - looking is ok... better ask before you tough.

winnie - we need names too?

am not feeling any urge to do anything to anyone, tho i gues sif i had to, batman could persuade me out of my fug

hey rj glad the beach bum date{s) went so well although pmsl about his hair! why bb - is he a surfer type?
what a good idea to do a run down! I met one online after being really unsure about the whole thing - been out with him for ages, but since family complications I'm rather off him. Spent some time apart and it was lovely getting my life back and not having anyone else to consider. We are away for a few days now and I'm wondering if that will change things .. on the other hand I could be with him at this very moment, we are both child free but I chose laundry followed by drinks with friends. I am going to give him a 6
So, if you don't hear from me it's cos I'm away, not in someone's freezer (hopefully) ... for the poster with the gruesome online story, how abour rj's list? the only weirdo was the rl bloke!
eve I am alert to the chauvenist stuff too but agree with rj about samename - scl, he was prob just letting off steam about work in general. Right to pick him up on it though.
asbm stay happy with the lovely action man!
and good luck to everyone else
at least it's eventful on here ...

yay!!
i bet he wouldn't have to do much persuading either
and rj at least you have had little sleep for all the right reasons this time

mr.verycynical (No 1) ... who has just, 3 hrs later, txt me again (I think the name says I already have an opinion )

Sweetguy, is the guy who is some distance away - inevitably-

Musicman can be no 3.

Hope that helps. I think it is just going to confuse me further. lol

beachbum - his house is on the coast. overlooks the forth bridges. great view i must admit after seeing myself. doesn't surf. does alot of snow boarding and winter sports though.

has that beach/boarder look when he's out his suit too.

sounds like a 10 so far!

not 10.

8/10. has already made it clear if this develops to something serious he will be wanting dc in future.

and he will gain a point when i sort his hair.

ridingjoker, that is a big issue
But lol about hair.

10/10 is perfect. hair stops perfect. rofl . there's bugger all wrong i'm just being fussy.

but yes, kids is big issue.

told him it would need to be a pretty amazing deal for me to consider it.

do any of you gals have a special friend or not at the minute? if you catch my drift for booty calls. I always said I wouldn't but... ho hum...

do u think it's all cos we secretly like having time etc on our own, and are used to our own company etc, or is it cos we've jsut not found that right man yet?

darkhorse would oblige me but i wouldnt let him have it when he was here the other day

Big T was supposed to be sport fuck of sorts.

but we never managed to get it on rofl.

he's offering me tonight too....... em..... no, still... i am the dickhead who has replied to his text because he started being humourous

have made a point of continuing to delete his messages i send and recieve so i cant start up texting him again tomorrow.

but seriously.... who could ignore messages offering carrier pidgeons bearing cigs and my favourite chocs and wine

i am far too easily won over i think.

rofl rj
yeah that's kind of hard to resist..
belle no i never have but could have
there are many threads on MN about this
works for many but not for others
hmm someone in the offing then?

apparently exh has got a council place locally to me that he is moving into

lou - stop letting it bother you. as long as he's not your next door neighbour then no need to worry. at least he's close to dc.

south - also... as to your query.

i do enjoy my own company
i do enjoy getting time to myself
i do enjoy not have to clean up after another person.

so i wont be getting serious with anyone unless

i enjoy their company too
they still give me time to myself
they clean up after themselves and even pitch in with some of my extra stuff if they ever have visions of me letting them share house with them.

fair one rj. whats the story with big t then?

lou agreed - try not to let it bother you, or to let iot rock the boat with you and dc's.

asbm - erm well possibly yes. but last time I did something similar it ended in a black mood for a few days, so not sure it's worth the hassle tbh. person concerned is lovely thou - but then it's the whole using you as an empty type thing that I can't get my head around. ho hum.