Where have all the fit and intersting men gone part 10 (part 10...already?!)

[Janos]

Yay, I get to start this one!

Anyways hey to Dee and mousie, the more the merrier I say

happy birthday ragged!
omg at loulaj's bsh.
lou, sure you have done right thing about thesp, you don't need randoms like him
sorry janos to confuse mr sleaze with you
as for sub/dom etc I could with a male sub who liked cleaning atm

That sounds pretty spot on to me lou. Very like exbf, Everything was someone else's fault, everything was so hard for me, I didn't understand cause I had it easy and so on and so forth until I just wanted to scream!

I mean of course everything was so hard for him.

ninah - NP. I wouldn't mind one of those either. Imagine, you could get a deep clean for free! Fantastic

tho it might not be entirely free janos ... on second thoughts I think I'll get the mop out

Evening all
Well I am sorry that I have no bombshells for today. At least it provided some entertainment for the evening.

ninah

You are very probably right!

evening all!
well finally had a lurk on here as been busy with my online groceries lol
oh jesus don't you just hate deciding what to cook all the time?isn't it one of the biggest downers of lphood?
ohh lou-lets hope!as ive said before he sees you as a nice sympathetic woman and these types just drain you,saw darkhorse around over weekend so obv bugger all hope of catching up with you on msn now-cheers!!
rj-think tintin here!hell i tried you know i did
scl-hmm cultural differences alert too tho i know you're just having a giggle!
me?well having a quick coffee with actionman tomorrow whilst he's skivving on his way to a meeting,and then seeing him on sunday
or should we rename it 'shagday'
seems apt from recent postings er hem
ninah

quick hello before bed.

trying to get an assessment done this week. between that and juggling marvels visits i'm really pushed for time.but assessment almost typed up then can go back to my lazy normal study schedule.

lou - suppose the one good thing to come of ex drinking is you know you definately DONT want that. silver lined clouds and all.

janos - hope ex isn't giving you too hard a time.

asbm - oh i like the renaming of shagday sunday. its good your meeting up though for nice normal non sexual things like a quick coffee. he's defo smitten little puppy.

oh and cringe , next wkd there's a gala day local. going to watch my friend walk in parade with her little girl. all the rest of my friends are going as we have a birthday party in same town. and we're all going to walk to the shows and see our friend in the parade...... but, marvel will be there with the scouts. in his full scouting outfit.parading away.

i've been getting the piss ripped out of me for days now. i never knew there was so many ways to crack jokes about bumping uglies with a scout.

marvels planning on making sure he embarasses me fully. think waving and shouting and blowing kisses as he walks past. i have a feeling i may suddenly have an urgent need to pee when the parade arrives.

right. i'm off to bed.

ROFL
you love it all really!
and btw the coffee is not in starbucks it's at chez asbm's

all quiet on the thesp front so far

asbm darkhorse isnt here til about 7 so i will be on and off msn today inbetween doing boring chores

tho i think you might be busy serving coffee

oh wait he isnt coming til tomorrow i read it wrongly

in which case maybe i will catch you later online

glad to hear about thesp hopefully he will understand now
tho let's hope he doesn't see it as a challenge
yes i'm in tonight so will catch up on msn later
boring chores are temporarily suspended here

morning all, so whats the dating line up for the weekend?

lou-darkhorse
asbm-actionman
itm-marathon man
rj-marvel at the parade rofl

anyone else out there?

Am very entertained at rj's scout man!
I am waiting for the removal people to bring boxes - and my weekend contains nothing more entertaining than a 3year old's party and potty training! It's fun here...

Hi, How nice to be back in our cosy little corner of mumsnet.

Have a super weekend everyone who has dates,(and those that dont). I haven't again but have been texting someone you never know I might meet him one day.

RJ lol at the scout parade. Oh I'm, . A sexy man in a scout uniform, you've got to love him.

Sunday renamed, hey I like that.

What have you got planned with Darkhorse Lou? Domestic bliss again. I'm at this too. In a nice way.

On a different note has anyone heard a new track by a group call 'Kid British'? It features the Madness song called 'Our House is Dadless' Check it out if your get chance, I love it.

Yes I agree it's cosy here - it's a bit scary in other parts of mn isn't it?

Samename just called so will prob see him tomorrow pm for a short while.

Hope to get on msn later tonight if anyone else is on

have you had jokes a plenty about playing with his woggle or his ging gang goolies rj?

eve , he is training it over here this evening, going to order pizza and he was saying about making the kids a fire to eat it round

tomorrow weather permitting we are going to take them out geocaching for the first time

not sure about tomorrow evening, but i am taking him home earlyish on sunday so he can see his dad on fathers day

ohh i'm sure that RJ has heard all those jokes before lol
itm-seeing marathon man again?!

lou - yes, they are but a few. there's loads. but i think darkhorse is a scout in disguise. building fires,etc.

luckily i'll have kids at the gala day next wkd so he cant really come and embarass me as i'm still keeping them seperate.phew. wel..thats excuse i've told him.

asbm - aahh i see. "coffee" at your house. rofl. are we renameing friday fu**day? no.. thats a bit vulgar. lol.

eve - i'm at over scout uniform. there are many uniforms i like. not sure about the scout one?? maybe i'll have to see it on to decide just not sure if i think thats a bit pervy, are scouts not supposed to be wholesome?

itm - yeah.. i want to know too, any more dates with marathon man lined up

scl - samename, are you going to ever have that chat. or does it seem like too much effort really?

llaj - have you heard from BSH since his revelation

mouse - keep chuckling. we've nearly all encountered men with weird hobbies on here now. your time will come and we will chuckle at you

rj i have already said this to him

RJ it was today
i'm sure marvel with look fab in his uniform,and i have to agree i think darkhorse and actionman are def scouts too
but fair play to them all they could be dressing up as women like bsh(sorry llaj not taking the p out of you here!)
out of interest when do you think marvel will meet ds?and how are you going to do it?

at rj
but why not?
instant or cafetiere asbm?

no idea about meeting ds. wonder just how long i could keep them seperate tbh. i'm defo not ready for that. and i think i would only do it if i was 100% it was a long term thing. and i mean proper long term serious relationship. which will take me months, if not yrs to decide on that.

we're going for dinner tonight though. i'm wondering if we'll be splitting the bill as usual. or he'll fork out for it. this halfers thing is doing my head in. he doesn't go as bad as checking bill and counting up. but when he was faffing about when we went for lunch last time i ended up just paying for it by time he'd tried to work out half.

told him "halfers is doing my head in. i paid for this. you get next time~"

i prefer this to bloody calculating half. easier just to take turns (of course if he wants to pay all time i wont argue )

this is marvels downfall. i have to train him on EVERYTHING about relationships.

so far he's been pretty good. i only need to explain once and he gets it right next time. but this is today lessons. - how to go about paying for meals.in turns. i like paying this way as sometimes i'm treating him. sometimes he'll be treating me.

why instant of course
hmm the dc question?
how do we go about this?
ninah?
enlighten us lol
tbh i'm in the situ now where i will have to come clean about actionman if i'm to continue seeing him
and the thought of what exh will do/say is just filling me with absolute dread

and yes i'm divorced and it's none of his friggin' business but he will go off on one..
and am also worried about the kids becoming attached and then it all going wrong
am i being terribly selfish here?