Where have all the fit and intersting men gone part 10 (part 10...already?!)

[Janos]

Yay, I get to start this one!

Anyways hey to Dee and mousie, the more the merrier I say

Hi all, eve-thanks for that, I will look it up. Turkish delight sounds lovely

Lou-hope your back improves soon. The mystery man sounds v interesting!

asbm-forgot to answer your question from the other night-divorce is in really early stages. Had a slightly heated convo with exhb today, about reasons for divorce on the petition. Said he wouldn't cop to anything he didn't agree with but would consent anyway. wtf arsehole? Also, haven't spoken to dd about Mummy having a 'friend' and I haven't a clue how I am going to raise the subject. She's only five and am not sure what she would make of it.

btw, I have a sneaky feeling exhb may have sneaked a look at my mobile whilst he got a glass of water from the kitchen. If he did he would have almost certainly seen text messages from nm.

I read somewhere that having a relationship with a 3rd party before you are divorced is still regarded as adultery even if you are separated?

An admirer from a far maybe. Hope you solve the mystery.

morning all,

well... very nearly met up with bigT last night.

was ready and waiting by the door with my keys for my sister to baby sit... and the rd was closed between mine and hers. it's a 30 min detour ontop of a 20 min journey .....so she decided to cancel on me.

oh no it's like Cathy and Heathcliff rj! hope you get to meet soon
forgot to say it's good holly is getting on well, this thread moves so fast
eve your friend sounds good company, hope is not doing your head in about the what ifs
lol at lou and her mystery blond
well I took the advice on here and forgot to be irritated by bf, had a very nice evening I think he is coming round again tonight

Morning all

RJ shame road was closed. Does that happen often?

Lou sprry to hear abt back, have you identified mystery admirer.

Weird day yesterday - met friend for coffee first thing, think she is def splitting with her p, who drinks heavily. She has v young dcs.

I/v wasn't brill both from my performance (was so nervous) and the i/viewers. Was soo nervous.

On my way back bumped into mum of ds1s friend - she is also splitting with her p after 30 yrs - another drinker and also dopehead!!

Samename came round - took me for a pub meal.
Stayed over -is coming round again wed.

seems to like me working hard in bedroom !! not sure if I want to be doing that all the time TMI!!! Will monitor this closely

scl that's a bit cryptic! what, you mean he just lies there? blimey
on the bright side it's a good workout I suppose

Yes am a bit embarassed Ninahbut wanted to share. Seems to favour one position whereas I prefer a variety. Yes a good workout for me and OK for me too - doesn't fully do it for him but he doesn't seem bothered (strange emoticon). Also very affectionate.

morning all!
rj-bugger!
lou-that's all you need with the hols,hope the pills are working?
eve-
scl-????!!!!
ninah-good lol.will mail you!
llaj-good stuff,and god false alarms are hideous!haven't used MAP for years but when i did it didn't half mess up my cycle.
dp-yes despite being separated,you are technically commiting adultery it's true i'm afraid!
as for meeting dd i would just answer questions as you go along personally,i introduced nm as my friend and the next time the dcs met him we came clean as they started digging lol.fortunately they do like him alot and are already asking me to marry him lol
exh is absolutely furious and is refusing to speak to me which in a sense is a huge relief as i dread seeing him,but,he is now directing his efforts on manipulating the dcs and messing with their heads

rofl scl
us fit thread girls like variety

yes it's too soon to be in a rut LOL

aSBM sorry to hear abt your exh

am imagining what your exh would have to say too if god forbid you had the audacity to have a relationship with another bloke and your dcs had the audacity to actually like their mum's nm!

he was a bit sniffy when I mentioned samename. and exbf

the valium worked too well, woke up late and so kids went into school mid morning lol

i did take more than i was meant to though, but it has worked a bit, so will take less tonight

no further info on the mystery man, or on the health of my plumber's daughter

asbm - i'm sending exh a 2 fingered salute.

scl - road closures common here as doing alot of works and upgrading railroads that criss-cross backroads.

and.... very as samename. lazy bugger. why did you not just move him into new position? bugger you doing all the work.

ninah - aaaah glad you like bf today.lol

lou - no news is good news.

rofl rj join the queue it's growing by the day!
all my friends are shocked by his behaviour and the effect its'having on the dcs,we expected the worst but this is the worstwith bells on iyswim
anyhow,anymore poss times for your meet up?

dunno, my mums coming round tonight so i suppose i could escape if he's finished early. but i have a cold , not feeling my best for a date tbh. been longing for my bed all day.

aww miserable!
and dare i say it 1st dates and snotty noses don't mix lol

no snotty nose. just my synesis(sp?) are swollen. feel a bit like my head is swollen. should really take a couple of nurofen and it might die down.

he's coming round tomorrow so we'll have to see. [hmmm]

he could take your mind off it tho?

i have a tricky situation to handle and not sure what to do ladies

do tell lou

well, whilst not actively dating or looking, i have just got a message from a guy

this guy turns out to live 2 DOORS away from me, he is the son of my neighbour, and the person my oldest daughter has the biggest thing for

in fact occasionally i have joked with her about him fancying me as he stops and watches me or smiles when he sees me leaving my drive, and she has a huge drama about how he is hers lol

now i am not interested and he is not my type, BUT, he lives 2 doors away from me and i cant just ignore him, and i am thinking i can never ever tell dd he got in touch can i?

he is in his mid to late 20's i think

omg

send him polite thanks but no thanks reply.

don't tell dd.

all i have done is say omg you are my NEIGHBOUR

dd would hate me forever